Post Date December, 03 2023
Whether you are a married couple who have been married for a long time or just entered the palace of marriage. In short, we have to face various problems between couples. So, how should we face the problems in marriage? Should we start from ourselves and break some of our behavioral habits?
As for this issue, the editor has summarized the following issues that affect marriage relationships, hoping that everyone can take it as a warning.
Overall comparison
There are no two people in the world who are the same. Each person has their own unique characteristics, and it is irresponsible to compare their loved ones to other members of the opposite sex. This can be very damaging to one's self-esteem and particularly devastating.
Unreasonable 'absentminded sleep'
Just like students being absent from school without reason, some people who do not go home without reason after marriage have become a big problem. I am very busy with work and have a lot of socializing, so it is common to come home late. Of course, this is understandable, but it is important to grasp the scale, as it will inevitably affect the relationship between husband and wife in the long run.
Fighting everywhere
When two people have an argument together, they must pay attention to the time and occasion to avoid hurting the other person's self-esteem.
Substance First
In a materialistic society, some people believe that whoever earns money will be in charge. This statement lacks the warmth of a family and is bound to put the family in danger.
Not tolerant
Family should be a place full of inclusiveness, it is not a company, and the division of labor should not be so clear. Whoever has time should do more in order to have fun and harmony.
Too selfish
Marriage is not a business, and there is no need for us to be too selfish in this process. Family matters need to be negotiated between two people, and those who only focus on their own happiness and ignore the other person's thoughts cannot manage family relationships.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
