Post Date November, 16 2024
University is a palace of joy, filled with a youthful atmosphere. The carefree life in university is the most beautiful memory of our lives. I remember when we first started university, our counselor held our first class meeting and said a sentence at the end. I remember to this day: in university, life is not perfect without a love relationship.
At first, I didn't understand the meaning of this sentence. Later, after graduating and working, I realized that love in college is the purest and cleanest. The love of college students is not oppressed by material and life. If you like it, you can be together, and if you don't like it, you can be separated. College student love can wither and crumble, and you can stick to it for a lifetime. Because their love is pure and pure.
At the age of college, men are tall and graceful, while women are graceful and upright. During this period of rapid hormonal inflation, they yearn for love and the attention of the opposite sex. When it comes to dating, they cannot avoid the controversial topic of "should college students have sex?
All along, there have been supporters and opponents. Supporters say that love between couples is made, and since they are lovers, having a relationship is understandable; The opposition said that college students are not yet mature in both mind and body, and they cannot bear the relative responsibility. There are also countless cases of scumbag cheating in the name of love; Both sides have their own points of view, and they are not convinced by each other when it comes to the needle.
During the Chinese New Year, I heard a reader's story backstage, and I hope to share it with the young people present, hoping it will be helpful to you.
Originally at the age of a flower, but withering prematurely, Meihua was born into a happy family with excellent grades. The happiness of the family always exudes an indescribable charm in Meihua. Since junior high school, there has been a constant stream of pursuers, but Meihua has never paid attention because she knows that her primary task is to learn.
Because of her outstanding performance, Meihua was admitted to a key university with excellent results. She had never made up before. She received a makeup bag prepared by her mother that summer vacation of the college entrance examination. From the initial surprise to what clothes to wear and lipstick later, she was able to handle it with ease. The light makeup and various skills of talented women quickly made Meihua a shining star on the campus. College is not as stressful as high school, There is no homeroom teacher who supervises who falls in love every day.
The sparkling star Meihua suddenly became the object of courtship for male students in the department, with love letters and flowers flying all over the sky, but Meihua was not blinded by this illusion. She focuses on doing her own things, and for love, Meihua is very eager, but for love, Meihua also has her own standards.
In the sophomore year, Meihua met Xiaowei, a sunny, handsome and caring boy who attracted Meihua. But what Meihua didn't know was that from the first time she saw Meihua, Xiaowei fell in love with Meihua. Maybe this is Love at first sight in the eyes of others.
This talented and beautiful couple quickly fell in love. They were like glue, no matter how busy they were, they would meet every night to stroll around the campus together. Meihua and Xiaowei walked on the road, which was a scenic spot. They became the envy of other couples and a beautiful story in the school.
On the night of Xiaowei's birthday again, neither Xiaowei nor Meihua came back and spent the night together outside. On that night, Meihua gave everything to Xiaowei. And Xiaowei also said that he will be responsible for Meihua for a lifetime.
I thought everything was so beautiful, but how could life be so smooth and efficient?
After the two of them tasted the "fruit of love", they couldn't restrain their inner desires. In fact, both of them could understand that they were talented, beautiful, and passionate. Sometimes, due to a lack of knowledge about sex and their inability to resist their desires, they even fail to take safety measures during several attempts to taste the fruit of love. They often walk by the river without getting their shoes wet.
After Meihua finally delayed her period, the two realized the seriousness of the problem and went to the hospital. Sure enough, Meihua was pregnant and had a difficult ectopic pregnancy, followed by borrowing money, miscarriage, and cultivation. Since then, Meihua became silent and speechless. Xiaowei looked heartbroken, but there was nothing they could do. In fact, both of them felt uncomfortable when such a thing happened.
Xiao Wei is also a responsible man. He wants to bear all the consequences, but love is always so delicate. It always comes gently, walks gently, and doesn't take anything away. What remains is pain and scars. In the end, the mandarin ducks also parted ways.
After separation, Meihua focused all her attention on her studies. Due to her excellent grades, she was assigned to a very good foreign company after graduation. After experiencing a painful downturn, Meihua also reached a climax in her life, with both career and love having abundant harvests. However, just before the two were preparing to get married a year ago, bad luck hit her again.
During the premarital medical examination, Meihua's prenatal doctor said that Meihua had undergone an abortion, which had a significant impact on the ovaries and may not be able to become a mother. This was undoubtedly the biggest blow to the bride. She didn't know what to do, but after calming down, Meihua decided to tell her husband all the secrets on the occasion of their wedding because Meihua believed that since the two were preparing to get married, they should be honest and not have expired or cheated, And the enlightened husband, who accepted Meihua, should love Meihua's present, future, and past. Meihua has finally found her own happiness, and I also believe that they will definitely have a happy life.
I don't know what you think about having sex during your student days. As for me, I think we should restrain ourselves because we don't have self-control or the ability to take on the mistakes we make during our student days. If you can reasonably control and live a safe and reasonable private life during your student days, it's understandable and I support it, If we cannot handle it rationally, I think we should not, because we cannot bear such a responsibility during that time period.
