Post Date December, 02 2023
Motivation should be pure, do not fall in love for the sake of love
Should college students fall in love? To this day, discussing this issue may seem outdated. Because even conservative parents rarely say 'no' to college romance. Lang Chunhong, whose daughter was just admitted to college this year, said, "College students can fall in love, but they should be cautious. My daughter said that I have deprived her of the opportunity for early love, and when she goes to college, she definitely wants to fall in love. I am worried that she will fall in love for the sake of love, and this blind start of love will ultimately be harmful to both parties
For Zhao Shige, who graduated in 2008, college romance brought him great spiritual comfort. Receiving a text message from your girlfriend while memorizing words instantly lifts your spirits. He encourages new students to fall in love, but "with a responsible attitude towards each other, be serious, and first determine whether you truly want to be good to them. Falling in love for the sake of loneliness or love may not be harmful to you, but it is disrespectful to the other person. You should think carefully to avoid misunderstandings and misunderstandings.
Be bold and take action when it's time to do so
Love should be talked about, but how should it be talked about? Senior brothers and sisters suggest "exerting subjective initiative and boldly moving forward". Senior Sister Wang said, "Romance should be discussed when there is time and social circle. After work, there are fewer collective activities, and many good men have partners. It is difficult and challenging to get rid of the fate of leftover women." She suggested that senior sisters bravely break away from the secret love mode and convey their feelings to their beloved ones through hints or even confessions. Accepting and everyone is happy, being rejected is also a valuable experience, and life is about tasting all kinds of flavors
Senior Brother Zhao's experience is: "As long as both parties do not dislike each other, there is a chance. He believes that boys can appropriately exert their perseverance and gradually pull their hearts towards themselves. However, Senior Sister Dong, who uses the term "blood and tears history" to describe her experience of backdating, believes that "women are always sensitive to the veil that separates them from men. After successful backdating, they tend to doubt the other party's feelings for themselves, feel that they are not being cherished, and lead to tragedy." She suggests that young martial sisters "Confession is necessary, and backdating requires careful consideration before acting
Chen Qian, who had just graduated, regretted falling in love. She said, "It's almost impossible to have a love relationship that only looks at emotions regardless of conditions after graduation. It's a pity that I haven't had a love relationship in my four years of college. Those younger students in schools with a severe gender imbalance should participate more in activities at other schools to create opportunities for themselves and others
Love like you've never been hurt before
In the eyes of the world, college love has always been beautiful, and as a result, so many people pay tribute to their lost youth and miss the girls they pursued together in those years. The reporter found in the interview that most senior brothers and sisters hold a positive attitude towards college romance, but there are also a few senior brothers and sisters who voted against it. Eighty to nine out of ten college romantic relationships end up being yellow. It's better not to start without results. "Fruitless love made Senior Brother Wu Fan's attitude negative, but he also admitted to the happiness at the time. If love is regarded as an economic activity, it is difficult for people to produce and achieve results.
"If college love goes well, you can find your child's his mother directly. Even if you don't find it, you can narrow the scope of finding a suitable life partner for yourself." Zhao Shige summed up the significance of college love in this way. Looking back on the four years of college, in addition to the graduation certificate, there should also be a memory of either plain and sweet, or sour and bitter love. College dating does not require third-party permission. If there is a suitable one, just talk and see. It's good to play on your own if you don't meet someone you like. Not demanding or shrinking is my attitude towards love, "said Senior Sister Dong.
