The order of touching plays an important role in sexual life. Generally speaking, one should start from the least sensitive part and gradually transition to the most sensitive part. Touching the most sensitive area from the beginning will only backfire.
Men and women enjoy different ways of touching. Women seem to be more sensitive to the intensity of touch. Many people touch their spouse in their preferred way, but this may not necessarily be what the other person likes. You should first understand the other party's true needs in order to achieve good results.
Compared with his wife, the husband's Sexual arousal needs more visual stimulation. This can precisely explain why men prefer to have their lights on when having sex, while women prefer to have sex in dim light or completely without light.
But women can also produce Sexual arousal due to visual stimulation. Moreover, handsome men can evoke the same visual pleasure for them as astringent women do for men. But it's customary for them to avoid discussing this.
Despite the importance of visual stimulation in sex, many people still mistakenly avoid using their eyes. They are worried about their physical appearance and have concerns. Women may worry about having too small breasts, waist circumference, and thick thighs; Men may be worried about having too small sexual organs and thick body hair. Our sense of self inadequacy is so strong that it is often difficult to believe that other people will get Sexual arousal because of themselves.
The Real Feelings of Men and Women in Couple Sexual Life
Everyone has a body odor, formed by bacteria on the surface of the skin, which, like fingerprints, varies from person to person. We feel that someone is attractive to us, to a considerable extent, due to their body odor. According to a survey, 71% of men and women believe that body odor is an important stimulant. About one-third of women believe that men with strong body odor are sexier than men with light body odor. More than half of people believe that body odor is the most sexy. About 1/4 of people prefer spicy body flavors.
Women's sense of smell seems to be more sensitive than men's. They can smell a slight sweat smell three feet away. During ovulation, their sense of smell is particularly sensitive.