Post Date December, 03 2023
Although the outcome of extramarital love is different, the final choice of men and women often presents their own gender characteristics. When a married man is in love, he often promises to break up with his wife and marry his lover again. However, in real life, it is still rare for men to truly fulfill their promises. Many people use various excuses to procrastinate and delay in putting their promises into practice. Their general course of extramarital love is often from "liking the new but not tired of the old" to "not tired of the old and discard the new". So, does it mean that men are more selfish, hypocritical, or even treacherous when big men retreat at the critical moment?
It is undeniable that there are some men who use their lovers as temporary substitutes in order to satisfy their temporary selfish desires or pursue sensory stimulation, including some moral cheats who play tricks on women; What's more, when the lover endangers his own career and can't get rid of it, he kills to completely remove the obstacles. However, more married men are struggling in the double dilemma and wandering in the dilemma, which has its social, psychological and moral reasons. It is inevitable to use only ethical standards to make value judgments on them.
First of all, although the society is more tolerant of men's sexual deviance than women's, moral values are still the main yardstick to evaluate personal character. Even in the western developed countries with highly open sexual concepts, private life still controls the official career and future of social celebrities. Moreover, men always pay more attention to their social roles and career values. Extramarital love is often just a romantic episode in their colorful life. If they can achieve the same beauty and complement each other, they naturally want to have both fish and bear's paws, and do not want to swim out of this enchanting but dangerous whirlpool. However, in the event of a conflict with fame and career, they often have the right to fight back against the current of interests and bear the pain of parting. Few infatuated men sacrifice their good husband and father's reputation for their lovers, and even bear the charge of violating family ethics to destroy their bright future.
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