The common understanding of sexual life between couples is that men's interests are in quantity, that is, how often they have sex; A woman's interest lies in "quality", that is, how they live each time. In fact, this is a misconception. Due to various reasons, many wives do not fully understand men's sexual psychology and requirements, and men also have some sexual secrets that they do not want to reveal but hope their wives know and understand.
There are five main sexual secrets that men want their wives to know:
1、 Men's sexual demands are not stronger than women's.
Many women who are wives always believe that their husbands are not satisfied with their sexual life, but this is actually a misconception. In real life, what men are most afraid of is their wives claiming that they have poor sexual abilities. Therefore, sometimes men frequently make sexual demands to their wives, not because they really need them, but because they are worried that they will not have sex for a period of time. Wives may say that they cannot, and even have to hold on to face when they are unable to do so.
2、 Men not only need sex.
Many wives believe that a man's sexual activity is just one aspect of sexual intercourse, and they need more emotional communication from multiple perspectives. Sometimes, all men ask for is hugs, kisses, or intimate words. That's all. Their demands for sex are not as singular as their wives think.
3、 Men can also gain sexual pleasure in love.
Married men all hope to gain a sense of love, happiness, and relaxation from their wives, as well as a romantic relationship. "Men, like women, are more affectionate, and their sexual pleasure is more satisfying. Many men who have been married for many years are most afraid that their wives won't understand their romantic needs and say they don't look like a man, so they forcefully put on a masculine appearance.
4、 Men also need to be caressed before sex.
Some wives are not satisfied with their husbands' performance during sexual intercourse, feeling that they are not "doing their best", and some even believe that they are dealing with themselves. In fact, it's not that the husband doesn't need sex, nor is it because the wife lacks charm, but because of the lack of cohabitation music, the fire of men's sexual desire has not yet been truly ignited.
5、 Men don't always actively demand sex.
Men's sexual desire is not always through sexual intercourse. In the intimate contact between husband and wife, the charming and charming wife like a little bird, as well as the gentle and considerate sweet words, can excite the husband and produce a warm and comfortable sexual experience.