Post Date December, 02 2023
I always feel that young women nowadays seem to have a bit too much awareness of sex. In the era of rampant sexual information, it seems necessary to adopt a more natural attitude towards sex. If it were in the old society where sex was always taboo, it is understandable that people would be eager to uncover the mystery of sex.
However, nowadays, due to the proliferation of sexual information at hand, after receiving too much diverse sexual information, it actually makes people less aware of what sex is.
I personally feel that women seem to have a strong self-awareness towards sex. The messages spread through magazines and other media have made women dizzy, constantly thinking about how many dates they will agree to. Or it's better to use some tricks and not agree too easily. It's better to make him wait anxiously.
In fact, we should face sex with a natural mindset. Sex is basically something that two people do together. Since it's two people working together, it doesn't matter who takes the initiative first. In this way, of course, there was no agreement or disagreement. Women often have the phrase 'agree to him', but in reality, if they have this mentality, it actually represents that they are an unattractive woman. The so-called 'promise' is like the last line of defense. As long as we cross this line of defense, there is nothing else to surpass. But once men lose their goal of further transcendence, they naturally lose interest. So sometimes we also hear women say, 'After having a sexual relationship, he suddenly becomes cold.'.
To be honest, this is because such women lack the charm of transcendence. So the men she interacted with felt satisfied after seeing her undress and having sex with her.
Men's interest in sex began when they used to lift girls' skirts and peek under their clothes in kindergarten. The reason why men like a woman is because they hope to better understand what kind of person they are, where they live, or what kind of things they like. In other words, men have an exploratory mentality towards the women they like. So after starting a relationship and having sexual intercourse, if you no longer have a sexual interest in this woman, then everything is over. When a woman is naked in front of him and everything is at a glance, if his feeling is that all women are the same, then this relationship is over. But. If there is something that makes him want to further understand and explore after having sexual intercourse, it means that the woman is attractive.
However, when women face men with a "yes" attitude, this promise is equivalent to everything. When a woman says, 'I give you everything I have,' but after everything, there's nothing left. Women see sex as their last trump card, but men actually leave her behind.
In fact, sex is not the ultimate trump card, face is just a process in love. The so-called sex is just a behavior that everyone engages in on a daily basis.
I think sex and money are actually very similar. People always feel that talking about sex and money is a shameful thing, and believe that pursuing sex and money is a manifestation of indulgence and greed. However, both sex and money are indispensable things for everyone in their daily lives. So there's no need to be embarrassed to urge someone to lend money. It's natural to say, 'I want to pay back!' or to borrow money from someone without feeling embarrassed. Just say, 'Borrow some money!' Whether in work or in any situation, it's a strange idea to feel disrespectful when mentioning money.
After having such an idea, we can understand how to be in love. Sex is not something special. However, some young women in their teens or early twenties are unable to face it with a natural attitude, always treating sex as a very special thing.
For example, when two people are in the same room, one heart thumps and jumps, thinking only: When will he hold my hand? When will you kiss him? When do you want to start having sex? But the result of excessive nervousness made the time they spent together enjoyable.
If these things can be left behind, then just two people alone will feel very happy. I believe that if we treat sex as something very special, we will definitely not be able to develop a good relationship. If sex is considered the ultimate trump card, men will lose interest in women and end their relationship. However, if sex is considered a natural thing, then both men and women can definitely discover a continuous stream of fun from each other.
That is to say, as long as they can face each other with a natural mindset, their relationship will become very relaxed, and a relaxed relationship is in front of each other, even if they are only wearing a pair of shorts and don't care. In this way, one can easily showcase each side of oneself in front of the other, and each other can constantly discover that this person also has such a side.
In a romantic relationship. Both men and women must be liberated. If sex is treated as something very special, there won't be a beautiful relationship.
