In sexual education for infants and young children, language positioning is very important. Because there are peers around infants and young children, as well as the elderly and the elderly. They are communicating with everyone. They are like a new computer, with not much storage capacity, and they are desperately eating knowledge.
When I was a child (about 3 years old and above), I found my aunt's urine dripping and blood (with menstruation) in a public restroom. I was very scared and thought she was sick. I imagined that she might refuse to leave the restroom and keep staring at her. Grandma pulled me out. I asked my grandmother, "What's wrong with that aunt?" She said, "She did something bad, so she bled
She did something bad? Why did she bleed when she did something bad? This question has been bothering me for a long time. Whenever I think I did something bad (where I thought I was wrong), I worry about bleeding in my own place and desperately engage in self reflection. Looking back, it's like a Christian praying.
I remember my first period of menstruation until my adolescence, and I remember it very clearly today. That was a summer morning, and I woke up earlier than before. My underwear was strange, get up and take a look at the blood! Blood! Blood! scared! I feel like the sky has fallen, oh my god, retribution has finally arrived! What bad thing did I do?
After so many years, I thought of laughter. Because I was afraid, I didn't dare to tell my parents that I had found some toilet paper to use as a pad. However, I couldn't fix it properly, so I left it on my pants during school and didn't dare to go home after school. I sat in the classroom until it was dark, blocking my backpack on my buttocks and running desperately towards home. This awkward matter was not resolved until one day my sister discovered it.
When we know that our language can be infinitely expanded by children, we can understand why not to lie in sex education.
Children's sex education humorous stories
German divorced father and 2-year-old daughter take a shower together. The daughter noticed for the first time that her father's lower body had added something she didn't have, and sympathetically asked him if it hurt? Father asked why it hurts.
My daughter naively said, "Mom said the meat is swollen, and the swollen meat hurts
The father explained that the male part is different from the female part, so there are differences between males and females.
When my daughter reaches the age of 7, one day she comes home and asks about the word 'ficken'. German mother asked her to ask her father next time. The girl was very regretful and went to her neighbor's house for a swimming class. She heard the word everywhere, but no one wanted to explain it, just mysteriously smiled.