Sexual Health
Sex education is the responsibility of the family. Children's sex education should not deviate
The failure of sex education is always held accountable to schools, teachers, and society. Whose guardian will actively reflect on themselves? Parents are the first mentors of their children, and their daily behavior and words always affect their children's cognition and development. Starting from the perspective of parents, sexual education is excluded, and others cannot carry out it.
Experts have conducted a survey on education issues, and thousands of students were selected from three middle schools in a certain city to conduct adolescent questionnaire surveys. The results show that only 56% of men know what ejaculation is, and 73% of girls know why menstruation occurs. Only 12% of the students really know the Secondary sex characteristic of adolescence. It can be seen that adolescent children do not know how their bodies develop and grow. Through in-depth investigation, it was found that middle school students who knew about the Secondary sex characteristic almost did not accept the guidance of their parents and teachers. Some of them knew it from the contents of medical and scientific popularization, and the other part was the state of "unknown origin".
In the eyes of parents and teachers, knowledge related to adolescent development may not matter, as failing an exam does not require sex education. From another perspective, 12% of the thousands of students know this knowledge. What would happen if their channels were "abnormal" or even obtained from negative channels? It's hard to imagine.
Sex education is a family responsibility
From a normal educational perspective, sex education is something that can only be achieved through cooperation among families, schools, and society. But there are priorities in doing things, and only a good beginning can proceed smoothly. Family is inevitably the starting point of sex education. Many parents still find it difficult to provide sex education for their children or lack appropriate ways of educating them. From the current content of the demand for sexual knowledge among middle school students, the demand for adolescent health care is the highest, and guardians need to inform their children of specific practices for this knowledge.
As parents, we must carry the banner of education. Not understanding sex education is not a problem, as long as we can face it squarely, actively learn, and guide our children correctly. In fact, sex education is applicable to people of all ages, let alone middle-aged and elderly people in China who have never received knowledge transmission in this area. Therefore, parents can also educate and explore the mysteries of "sex" with their children while studying.
Children's sex education cannot be derailed
Due to the development of the internet, once various sensitive events are widely spread on the internet, they will cause widespread discussion among netizens in society. The various "campus doors" that have exploded online are also not included. The campus gate incident has raised concerns in society about sex education for the post-90s and even post-2000s. Not only each family has only one child, but now there is a deviation in children's sex education. In particular, there are many pornographic films on the Internet, television and other media, which misunderstand children's sexual awareness.