Whether it's a man or a woman, you should know that if your woman doesn't coax herself, there are always men who like to coax her; If his man doesn't flatter himself, he is always willing to flatter his woman. Looking at the reality of life, many cheating couples just want to find someone to coax her or flatter him. From this point of view, in marriage life, men must learn some tricks to coax women, and women must also learn some methods to flatter men. This is not hypocrisy, but wisdom!
1. Home is not a reasonable place:
This sentence is a truth that I understand after years of fighting with my wife. It is impossible for a husband and wife not to quarrel, but don't pester about a little thing. You must make it clear. There are some things that don't need to be made clear. It is not good to make it clear. At the same time, don't let the other party admit mistakes, even if the truth is on your side. Because there is no winner or loser in a quarrel between husband and wife, there is no need to divide the winner or loser. Instead, keep your eyes open and closed; Not only that, but also you need to use your true feelings to maintain a real home.
2. Be honest:
When men socialize outside, they sometimes like to hide the truth and tell some lies to deal with their wives. In fact, as long as it does not involve work, there is no need to make up the pretense of "being in a meeting" or "working overtime" to deceive his wife. Because it often takes ten sentences to cover up a lie, and it's hard to avoid mistakes. How tired.
3. Don't blame your wife's nagging:
Generally speaking, women are more talkative and nagging only in front of the men they like. Maybe the man had a bad job that day, or just had a conflict with his colleagues, but at this time his wife was like an indefatigable bird, chirping in front of you, making your mood even more irritable. But you can't blame her more. You just need to say to her: Honey, I'm tired. Let me have a rest alone.
4. Men should bear the responsibility of supporting their families:
Men bravely shoulder the responsibility of supporting the family, regardless of whether the wife is independent or dependent, even if the wife is working like you now and gets more or less salary every month, you should also regard yourself as the backbone of the family! When the wife comes home tired and needs to cook, the man should say: "It's so hard, let me support you!
5. Be careful with your wife:
In those days of her physiological cycle, a man must be careful, pay attention to his wife's diet, and make some blood tonic food for her appropriately. She must feel very happy.
6. To know how to praise:
A man must praise his wife. Who can you praise without praising his wife? Unless your brain is in the water.
7. Gentlemen do not use their words:
If a man does it because of a quarrel between his wife and his wife, it will be despised by everyone. In that case, your marriage will be in danger.
8. Both sides make progress together:
Women should learn to enrich themselves, and men should encourage them. In this way, we can maintain a certain balance between the two people for a long time, and the gap will not be too large. Can you imagine a graduate student living with a person who hasn't graduated from primary school?