Post Date December, 02 2023
There are inevitably contradictions in interpersonal relationships, but the existence of contradictions cannot negate the value of the other party's existence. What is the safest way to handle an argument with your girlfriend? The following four tips teach you how to handle an argument with your girlfriend.
one
Admit your mistake first
Women are the most unreasonable, and admitting their mistakes to their girlfriend is a prerequisite for implementing safe handling methods, regardless of who is right or wrong. There are many ways to admit your mistake: simply say that you are wrong; Send her a message to apologize; Wash a fruit smile and give it to her; Buy a small gift online and write her contact information, etc. Regardless of whether the other party accepts your confession or not, at least she knows your attitude, so as not to exacerbate the conflict.
2
Coax
By admitting your mistake, you should be able to have a normal conversation. Speak sweet words to coax you, saying that she is the most important person to you, and only when she is happy can you be happy. In short, you can say whatever the other party likes and choose the one you like. It's best to just say one sentence to save your girlfriend's heart. At this stage, even if your argument appears to have subsided on the surface, the negative consequences of the argument are already within a controllable range.
three
distraction
Just because your girlfriend forgives you doesn't mean she has no objections to you. At this point, you need to take her to do something to distract her from your argument. Take her to her favorite restaurant for dinner; Accompany her to go shopping and buy things she likes; Invite her to see a romantic and positive movie; Go hiking and exercise together; Shout three or five friends to gather together and so on.
By distracting her attention, your girlfriend can temporarily forget the fact that you had a fight before. By participating in things together with you, she will feel that being with you can actually be quite enjoyable. Even if you have safely overcome the crisis of your current argument, the same contradiction may occur again in the near future.
4
Rational communication and analysis of each other's problem points
To treat a disease, it is necessary to treat both the symptoms and the root cause. The first three safety measures after an argument with your girlfriend only achieve the purpose of treating the symptoms. To cure the root cause, you need to face the root cause of your argument, trace the root cause of the conflict, and jointly solve it. It's not scary to make mistakes, nor is it scary to have personality flaws. As long as you are willing to adapt and improve on each other, you will eventually contract happiness.
Invite your girlfriend to an elegant and quiet place (such as a coffee shop) to sit down and discuss rationally why you had a fight? Where is your problem? What is the problem with your girlfriend? It is not suitable to speak loudly in quiet places and will not cause secondary conflicts. Then, you first review yourself and give him assurance of the direction and determination to strive for improvement in the future. Finally, I believe your girlfriend will also realize that she also needs to get rid of her minor flaws. In this way, your argument will become a turning point in the sublimation of your relationship, and it will actually be a good thing.
By implementing the above four points, your relationship with your girlfriend can be restored to the sweetness before the argument. The best relationship between couples is to be able to speak well, avoiding accusations and questions between words. You need to learn to communicate with your girlfriend in a gentle and pleasant manner. When she is in a bad mood, you should try to maintain a calmer mind or at least maintain a calmer one than her. When you are in a bad mood, you should first hold back and remain silent for three minutes before speaking. This will inevitably reduce the number of arguments you have.
