Post Date December, 02 2023
Most of the post-80s generation are only children, and when the two individuals who have been arrogant since childhood come together, conflicts and conflicts inevitably arise. This requires both parties to learn more humility and interpersonal skills.
Change roles and adapt to married life as soon as possible
Wife is the lubricant of family life, and it is important to be able to handle the subtle relationships between the family and its members. This requires post-80s girls to quickly switch roles after marriage, give up their "princess" airs, understand how to create a harbor of love for their husbands, understand how to respect and care for their elders, and strive to become the driving force of their husband's career; After marriage, men born in the 1980s also need to change their "young master" habits. In addition to working hard in their careers and creating a good quality of life for their families, they should also care more about and take care of their wives, becoming a solid umbrella for their wives.
Get rid of bad temper and cherish marital emotions
Two previously unfamiliar people suddenly come together, inevitably feeling a bit uncomfortable, let alone two originally self centered people, which can easily lead to conflicts. Therefore, as young couples born in the 1980s, both parties need to change their "bad temper" and strive to adapt to each other. Especially for wives, don't be too unhappy and easily lose your temper or even get angry. Such a result can only harm the emotions of the couple.
The long-term path of a husband and wife ultimately requires learning to respect and understand each other. Both parties need to strengthen their self-cultivation, balance and be open-minded, and respect each other as guests, so that the relationship can deepen.
Learn to be happy, mutual support is the only way to be happy
At weddings in the West, pastors always ask newlyweds, "Whether in good or bad times, whether in poverty or wealth, whether in health or disease, love each other, never give up, until forever... Are you willing?" This sentence indicates that couples should support each other and walk hand in hand after marriage.
And this eternal belief needs to be maintained by happiness. Happiness is a form of enjoyment. With a happy heart, even if you encounter unhappy things and pressures from all aspects, the two can work together to solve problems, overcome troubles, and move towards happiness.
The Law of Husband and Wife Getting Along after the 1980s
The Law of Happiness: If you no longer always think about whether you are happy or not, you will achieve happiness.
The law of error: Everyone will make mistakes, but only by repeating these mistakes can you make a mistake.
The Law of Silence: Silence is the most difficult viewpoint to refute when couples argue.
Power Law: Power often originates from two reasons: hope or despair.
The law of receiving qi: The only way to receive qi is to ignore it, and not to despise it when it is ignored; If disdaining it is not possible, then you will have to suffer.
The law of stupidity: stupidity is mostly the result of hands, feet, or tongue moving faster than the brain.
The Law of Status: Some people stand at the top of a mountain, while others stand at the foot of a mountain. Although they are in different positions, they see the same size of each other in their eyes.
The Law of Conversation: There are two most annoying ways of talking: one is to speak without hesitation, never stopping to think, or never wanting to stop.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
