1、 Don't believe him to say that after getting married, he will remember every birthday and anniversary of you. Maybe he will remember the first year or two, but after a long marriage, he will forget everything, even your wedding anniversary. The most important thing for him before marriage is nothing but a trivial matter after marriage.
2、 Don't believe him to say before marriage that he is a hardworking and clean man. Otherwise, after getting married, you will find how disappointed you are. Even if he is diligent in front of you before marriage, don't be fooled by these superficial phenomena. Otherwise, why is the male dormitory always stinky?
3、 Don't believe that it doesn't matter if a man says you can do household chores before marriage. Do you think women can't do household chores and men really don't care? Even if he doesn't care about you not being able to do housework at all before getting married, he won't continue to tolerate a wife who doesn't know how to do housework after marriage. It's just a matter of time before a flash flood breaks out.
4、 Don't believe that men say before marriage that everything in the family after marriage is up to you. Men who say such things are too hypocritical, because men will never forget their leadership position in the family. What to eat, what to use, and what to wear after marriage can all be up to women, but when it comes to buying a car or a house, that's what men the final say.
5、 Never believe that a man says before marriage that his world is only yours. Otherwise, after getting married, you will be extremely disappointed. Women only have husbands in the world after marriage, while men have countless people in the world after marriage. Married men have careers, friends, family, and children in their world, and their wives are the last to be their turn.