Post Date December, 03 2023
On the path of restoring love, many people are prone to taking extreme measures, such as threatening self harm, kneeling down to pray for sympathy... Many, many, many of these actions not only fail to restore love, but also make the love that once belonged to you farther and farther away from you. Therefore, on the path of restoring love, we must not disappoint our original intention.
What is the original intention? It is the kind, benevolent, sincere, enterprising, tolerant, and compassionate heart that people are born with at the beginning.
To redeem love and live up to our original intention, we must remember to activate our most genuine heart in adopting redemption methods and techniques.
One is to be kind to yourself and the person you love
If you're heartbroken, don't forget to treat yourself well, and also treat the person who left you well. Don't get angry with him anymore, don't say any harsh words, don't say anything like 'I know you don't love me', 'I knew you changed your heart/fell in love with other girls',' Am I really that annoying to you? ',' Even if I die, you won't be sad '. Don't say anything that you think will make the other person unhappy, or that can help you calm down and soften your grievances.
Secondly, express appreciation for TA, with the goal of making TA feel happy
If he talks to you about your work, you should praise him: really? You should be the only one among colleagues who has received such an honor, right? If he expresses frustration or dissatisfaction, you should tell him that you have done enough.
Thirdly, TA accuses you, don't rush to defend, learn to accept, and learn to be tolerant
If you want to continue dating with him, then at this stage, if he accuses you, don't rush to argue. If he starts to find reasons to break up with you, such as "my parents don't like you", "you're too short", "not a virgin", "not beautiful", or dismisses you as "not a teacher/civil servant", don't backtalk. Just gently tell him: I never imagined being as excellent as you said, but the reality is that I accept myself as I am now.
Fourthly, learn to be grateful, with a grateful heart, and the true nature of people
When you are grateful for everything in life, you will have amazing rewards. Through simple gratitude, people around you will feel that you have something they never had before. When you show that you have everything, everyone will want what you have. The dazzling light you emit will make your ex curious, and he will wonder why you have undergone such a big change!
Fifthly, accept your past calmly
We must admit that no one is perfect, but unfortunately, although we realize that this is normal, we never try to accept or change. In fact, the only thing that won't change is change. If we want to improve our relationship with our ex, why not try to change ourselves and become better? Setting goals for ourselves and working towards them until we achieve them not only builds confidence, but also allows your predecessor to know that you are changing their shortcomings. The power of action is ten times greater than that of language. Your actions will make your ex fall madly in love with you.
There are many paths we can take to save love, but no matter which one we take, remember that since we set out, don't forget our original intention.
