Post Date December, 03 2023
After marriage, what can we do to bring happiness to the end? The answer is: manage your marriage with a passionate attitude! Let's first take a look at the psychological traits that we will have during our passionate love period!
Firstly, amplify the advantages and weaken the disadvantages.
When in love, we often magnify the strengths of each other, weaken or even ignore their shortcomings. For example, appreciating a boyfriend's carefree and unrestrained demeanor while ignoring his carelessness; I like my girlfriend to be obedient and obedient, so I tolerate her excessive dependence. After marriage, we should also carry out the tolerance in love to the end. The so-called 'open one eye, close one eye' is actually a typical manifestation of a passionate love period, which is a great magic weapon for making love last forever!
Secondly, I have an exceptionally keen sense and am good at feeling happiness.
Have you ever had the experience of watching the sunrise hand in hand in a passionate relationship, feeling incredibly romantic; Going to a restaurant with an elegant environment for a date can make us excited... In love, we are often very emotional, and even small things can be instantly captured by our keen sensitivity, leading to an exceptionally sweet sense of happiness. After marriage, because I forgot to remind myself, this sense of happiness gradually dulls. In fact, marital life is also filled with every bit of warmth and romance, so please continue to sharpen your feelings and explore the happiness after marriage!
Thirdly, showcase your charm and make the other person happy.
When in a passionate relationship, we always try our best to please our partner, hoping to make them like us, so we do everything we can to showcase our strengths and charm. And once we get married, we relax this positive motivation. For example, when in love, one needs to dress up for every date, but after marriage, one begins to be disheveled; Before marriage, you pick up and send your girlfriend to work every day, but after marriage, you just want to sleep at home... Please try to show your advantages with the positive mental attitude when you are in love, and you will find that it is not difficult to manage a happy marriage.
Fourth, carefully arrange the time spent together.
When we are in love, we look forward to every date and do our homework well in advance, carefully planning and arranging, hoping to turn every time we get along into beautiful memories in each other's hearts. After marriage, every day I look up but not down, so 'dating' has become the past tense. I know a state-owned enterprise CEO who has been married for over a decade. Apart from going on business trips, he insists on holding hands with his wife every Tuesday to go to the movies, and he remains steadfast. He told me that every movie appointment after marriage seems to relive the romance of love, and the relationship with his wife gradually sublimates through each date. It can be seen that increasing the dating time after marriage will prolong the preservation period of love!
When in love, these qualities we exhibit are the source of sweet happiness. In fact, only love preserves itself, can happiness last forever! So, please manage your marriage like a passionate love!
