Post Date December, 03 2023
Feng Xiaogang said: "Chen Daoming is a man who is so lofty that he will only bow his head in the play.". He comes from a scholarly family, and his father is a university professor. He is his beloved wife and has never appeared on CCTV for 20 years; He is a good father, he is family oriented, dislikes socializing, and does not drink alcohol; He is talented and proficient in playing the piano, chess, calligraphy, and painting. When he was a student, he was a versatile athlete and a master of tango; He has read a lot of poetry and books, and Ji Xianlin praised him for being able to serve as a graduate supervisor at Peking University. He and Qian Zhongshu are friends who forget their years; He said he was just an actor. He is Chen Daoming. His words are worth reading.
Education and culture are two different things. Some people are very educated, but they are very uneducated. Some people do not have much education and knowledge, but they are still very cultured and well behaved. Nurturing is characterized by a certain innate quality and gradual accumulation.
Responsibility is the backbone of a man and the pillar of his steadfastness. Do what you say, carry what you take, and bear the consequences of what you do wrong. The maturity of a man depends not on his age, but on how much responsibility he can shoulder. The more excellent a man is, the greater the responsibility he bears and the wider the scope of responsibility he has. Even if you cannot be a great man, you must still be a responsible man.
The greatest wealth of a man is suffering. When I say suffering, it refers to unavoidable suffering, not the search for suffering. Timely enjoyment and enjoyment are just embellishments of life. The greatest pain that future children will face is love and money, and their failure to experience spiritual suffering is their greatest suffering.
I like to tidy up my house, which is a state of mind. After cleaning up, I feel very comfortable. I think the biggest fashion for men is to spend more time at home. In fact, by calling all those who should go home, this society will be much more stable. How many people nowadays don't go home, not because of their careers, but because they are at the table or in the singing hall. If every household's lights turn on at night, it is also a fashion trend.
A true man doesn't necessarily have to be romantic, but he must be responsible. You don't necessarily have to earn a lot of money, but you must support your family. You don't have to listen to your parents in everything, but you must have filial piety. You don't necessarily have to follow three rules and four virtues, but you must spoil your wife. You don't have to make it to the top, but you must have time to spend with your family. You don't have to manage children, but you must love them. It's not necessary to be male chauvinistic, but when big things happen, one must have a clear mind.
I always believe that Chinese people are excellent and have no major flaws. However, I also sadly admit that there seems to be more hatred between Chinese people, sometimes inexplicably. This has reached the point where there is nothing to cause trouble. I don't know why. If you don't sweep the snow in front of your own house, then frost the tiles of someone else's house. Just take a look, why do you want to demolish their tiles?
At my age, I rely on experience in acting. To be honest, I'm really a bit lacking in skills now. Through different characters and directors, they can give me a lot of new things. At a certain point, there won't be any problems with acting, but it's also easy to not shine. Another way is to play hard to read, because you know too little about the world and people, and the most direct way is to read.
People cannot be too close to each other, but with their wives, because she is already your world, and your friends will never be your world. You and she are enduring storms, flowers, and blue skies together, so she is the one who truly enters your world, or the one who truly enters her world. That kind of patience is inherent in humanity and must be endured, leading to a sense of responsibility, obligation, and inertia.
A simpler life is more advanced!
