Post Date December, 03 2023
Why are men shy? There are some psychological mysteries involved.
Perhaps you have noticed a phenomenon in life where when a couple is suddenly exposed in public, the man is more shy than the woman; Newly married couples, whether at the wedding ceremony.
In the future, when visiting relatives and friends, the men always show little interest, while the women are generous. If there are many women around in the above situation, then the shyness of men will be even more severe, which has some psychological secrets.
Men's shyness often occurs in front of everyone, especially women. This is because men often get rid of themselves and observe themselves from the outside, in other words, what they often consider is: what will others think of me? What would she think of me?
Women tend to enter the egocentrism emotional world more easily, revel in it, and forget about their surroundings when they are happy or sad. For example, when a husband accompanies his pregnant wife for a walk in the park, the wife often has a proud expression on her face, as if she is boasting to others that she is about to become a true mother. Her joy is directly expressed, without any concealment.
Men who are husbands, on the other hand, are not. When others intentionally or unintentionally glance at them, they will feel very embarrassed because they speculate that they will think their wife's big belly is not attractive and that it is their own fault. The joy of men is replaced by this worry, which manifests as inexplicable "embarrassment".
The second reason why men are prone to shyness in front of women is that they strive to make women feel good about themselves, at least not to be looked down upon by them. So, when women pay attention to them, they will panic and think they have something to laugh at, so they can't help but show shame.
Leaders who understand the mentality of men sometimes intentionally insert a few women into a group of men when assigning work, resulting in men doing much better than before. This may also be considered a leadership art.
There is also a phenomenon where some young men feel flushed and heartbroken when they want to confess their hidden love to a girl, but feel embarrassed to say it when it comes to their lips. Why is this happening?
One important reason is that they are worried: "In case she refuses..." At this moment, the young man inevitably reviews the process of their contact. If the answer is positive and affirmative, it indicates that the time is approaching maturity and should not hesitate to express their wishes directly or indirectly to the girl.
As long as a man's shyness is moderate, it is not only not a flaw, but also reflects his "depth" and "charm". However, in most occasions, he should behave gracefully to show a man's full confidence.
