Post Date December, 02 2023
Recently, a website conducted a survey on the views of single men and women on marriage and love, and found that "fishing for a golden turtle husband" and "being close to a wealthy woman" have become the wishes of many single people. In terms of mate selection criteria, nearly 80% of singles believe that "personality" and "health status" are the most important, and compared to women valuing men's income, men value women's appearance more.
'Fishing for a Golden Turtle son-in-law' and 'Being a wealthy woman' have become the wishes of many single people
A total of 3569 people participated in this online survey, and the data shows that 60% of single women participating in the survey have the idea of marrying a "golden turtle", and 12.16% of them are working hard. Meanwhile, 40% of the surveyed men also have the idea of marrying a "wealthy woman", and 7% are working hard. Chinese people have a traditional concept of being talented and beautiful, so it is not surprising that women want to marry a golden husband. The survey results also reflect that many men also have this idea, which reflects economic and social development and changes in social trends.
Experts point out that people love beautiful things, and the pursuit of personal enjoyment and self actualization is a characteristic of this generation. In modern society, there is a lot of competition and pressure, and "fishing for a golden turtle son-in-law" and "being close to a wealthy woman" have become a shortcut to enjoy a wealthy life, so both men and women have this idea. However, whether such love and marriage can last is still a question. Money is not the key to determining the stability of marriage. Once people are satisfied with material possessions, their spiritual and spiritual well-being will face a crisis of emptiness.
The primary criteria for choosing a spouse are "fishing for a golden turtle son-in-law" and "being close to a wealthy woman"
Everyone has a standard for choosing a spouse, which embodies people's expectations for marriage life. When choosing a partner, there are slightly different standards for men and women. Among the single individuals participating in the survey, the top seven criteria for choosing a spouse for single women were personality, health status, income, age, height, education, and marital status, while for men, personality, health status, appearance, age, figure, height, and education were considered. Nearly 80% of singles believe that "personality" and "health status" are the most important, and compared to women valuing men's income, men value women's appearance more.
Experts point out that no matter how the times change, personality and health should always come first. Personality represents the spiritual level, while health status represents the physical level, making it the most basic choice for a person; External factors such as appearance and income constitute the medium of mutual attraction between people, but they have their own limitations in time and space and cannot determine the deep development of individuals; The importance of educational background is the reflection of the natural law of survival of the fittest, and the nature of pursuing high quality cannot be changed. These mate selection criteria reflect a person's most genuine pursuit of emotions.
The survey data also reflects that 60% of singles believe that ending their single life means "being with someone they love", while for marriage, 50% of singles understand it as "a happy and happy family". This is because modern single men and women have certain living and working abilities, strong independence, and therefore attach great importance to their own sense of happiness and like-minded emotions.
