Post Date December, 02 2023
A disease known in medicine as "urban marriage phobia" has led some new couples to stop at the door of the marriage palace, fearing future marital life and future misfortunes, and they have been deterred. Every weekend, I can always see wedding cars with novel designs and dazzling brides and grooms on the street. Especially recently, it is definitely a wedding climax. In addition to our love for each other, we are not familiar with each other in other aspects. I have only met his family twice and have never had a good conversation. I don't know if I can enter his family. Thinking of this, I
"Very scared..."
Women who fear marriage are generally idealists, and what they expect is a perfect life.
Most of them have never thought about marriage at all, and their yearning for the ceremony of "marriage" far exceeds the result of marriage
The longing for marriage. That is to say, what they call wanting to get married is just wanting to get married, not the married life after marriage. When it comes to marriage, they tend to show signs of panic
Love. Generally, women are concerned about the initial family life after marriage, including the handling and coordination of relationships with father-in-law, mother-in-law, sister-in-law, and other family members; Because I can't do housework, I'm afraid that others will find fault with me.
She is really worried now that she will become a family in the future. Can the husband's family accept herself?
"Both people have their own personalities and careers, and living together won't conflict?"? she
"We met at someone else's birthday party, and it was almost love at first sight. We were not young anymore, and after spending a year together, we felt very suitable for each other. Every minute we parted, we missed each other very much. The other day, he smiled happily."
Holding a bouquet of roses and proposing to me, I was particularly excited. Getting married at this stage seems to be the only way out. So his proposal was expected, and I agreed happily. But when I got my marriage certificate, I hesitated to get married
And was forced to temporarily run aground. In addition to our love for each other, we are not familiar with each other in other aspects. I have only met his family twice and have never had a good conversation. I don't know if I can enter his family. Thinking of this, I
"Very scared..."
"Marriage phobia" is a very representative modern social psychological disease.
Nowadays, most young people are only children, and they have always been accustomed to receiving the care of others. They are not good at taking care of others and assuming some responsibilities
Ren. When they think that establishing a family requires both spouses to share responsibilities and obligations, as well as to handle the relationship with the other family, face new environments and relationships, and hear people around them talk about negative things about marriage life,
There is a feeling of anxiety and tension. This social atmosphere makes people who have not yet entered marriage feel an invisible pressure. The excessive consideration of married life in the face of marriage manifests itself in fear of marriage and flight
"Avoid, many people delay getting married because of this, and even prefer to be celibate rather than" suffer ".".
The idea of being cautious about marriage is right, but it is not advisable to give up marriage because of caution.
There are many people who get married and can live a happy life. If you don't go
Try, how can you experience the joy of marriage? Marriage is a pair of shoes, only you know if it fits. "If you refuse to wear shoes, you may have avoided rubbing blood bubbles because the shoes don't fit, but it may also be caused by walking barefoot."
Step on a nail, and by that time, you may realize that marriage is actually a protection for love.
Marriage is a beautiful and romantic thing, but in this warm atmosphere, some marriages are covered with "rose ash". A disease known in medicine as "urban marriage phobia" has led some newcomers to stop at the door of the marriage palace, fearing future marital life and future misfortunes, and they have been deterred.
