The prevention of sexual apathy should eliminate concerns. Sexual apathy is a normal phenomenon in middle-aged people, but reducing it does not mean complete disappearance. Temporary disappearance does not mean permanent disappearance. As long as one can correctly understand and understand this physiological change, make psychological adjustments, and prevent sexual apathy, it is necessary to eliminate stress, focus on improving one's own and the other's enjoyment, and find and eliminate the reasons for low libido. Men not only need to get rid of their negative emotions, but also help their partners overcome this psychological barrier together. Make your partner aware of the nature and possible causes of the problem, help her avoid putting pressure on herself, and promote communication between both parties. Sometimes, the woman conceals and suppresses her pain and hatred (such as premature ejaculation) during the man's vigorous period, and only expresses it in a satirical manner when the man's problem is severe. At this point, it is necessary to remind her that what the man needs is sympathy. Support and consideration, rather than suspicion and blame, will only further harm the man's self-esteem and confidence.
Sexual desire suppression can be a secondary reaction to organic diseases, mental disorders, other sexual dysfunction, or the use of psychotropic drugs. It can also be directly caused by psychological and social factors, such as lack of confidence, unsatisfactory body image, guilt about sexual behavior, neuroticism, sexual personality breakdown, and suppression of husband and wife's life, all of which can lead to decreased sexual desire. Ideological pressure in daily life can affect desire or limit sexual activity, Tense relationships and emotional discord between couples can lead to a decrease in mutual attraction, and decreased libido can also occur after traumatic experiences such as strong J and L bonds, or due to fear, such as concerns about sexual hygiene, fear of pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases, fear of losing control of the body or mind during excitement, fear of opposition from the spouse, L bonds, extramarital affairs, and other factors that can interfere with the artistic conception of marital life. These various factors can lead to a decrease in physical strength, Energy expenditure, decreased interest in sexual activity, and decreased hormone levels can all lead to decreased libido.
The prevention of frigidity requires the following:
1. Eliminate negative psychological factors and correct misconceptions. Targeted relief of negative psychological factors through self suggestion and self adjustment. If necessary, provide psychological treatment under the guidance of professional personnel.
2. The marital life between couples should cooperate with each other to achieve sexual harmony, in order to achieve a "win-win" situation in sexual intercourse. Work should combine work and rest, and life should add a romantic atmosphere. The husband's consideration and tenderness towards his wife will increase her sexual interest.
3. Actively treating diseases that cause "infertility" can only lead to high-quality married life by eliminating patients with "infertility". Patients with sexual hormone deficiency can use estrogen instead of drugs under the guidance of a doctor, or drugs that increase blood flow and improve sexual arousal can be used. Traditional Chinese medicine and other kidney tonifying and aphrodisiac drugs can also treat female sexual desire suppression.
4. Discontinuing "sweeping" drugs, most people's "cooling" sexual desire will "ignite" again after stopping the medication.
5. Read more about sexual knowledge, consult with doctors, increase sexual desire, improve sexual skills, and enable women to truly enjoy the joy of married life.