Post Date December, 03 2023
Subversion of the traditional view: premature ejaculation is not a disease, but a physical or psychological decline directly reflected in the physical performance.
When the word premature ejaculation appeared, it only represented a phenomenon. It describes the condition of premature ejaculation. It was not identified as a disease. Because premature ejaculation does not directly affect people's health, and it will not cause great physical harm if not treated. The biggest harm of this situation is to affect the quality of sexual life of couples, and even endanger the happiness and harmony of families. The so-called "thirty like wolves" and "forty like tigers" can explain some problems.
Why is premature ejaculation not a disease?
In the traditional view, premature ejaculation is a kind of disease, which is difficult for men to talk about. It is a "disease" that is more embarrassing to go to a doctor if you are embarrassed. But in fact, it is just our outdated concept, which only stays in the traditional cognition. Judging by the length of time is a common saying of traditional premature ejaculation theory, which is also criticized by many modern sexologists. Just because I don't get psychological satisfaction (including men and their sexual partners), it is said that it is a kind of disease, which is a bit alarmist. Am I fat now? Do I want to lose weight?
In fact, premature ejaculation itself is a relative statement. If you ejaculate quickly, you can find a way to delay ejaculation later. Surgical treatment is only a way to prolong the time. There are many people who choose to delay taking medicine, which objectively shows that surgery is not the only way to cure premature ejaculation.
But taking medicine is unscientific and not a long-term solution. Physiological problems can be cured by medicine. What if it is psychological dissatisfaction or sexual habits or lack of sexual skills? It is necessary to eliminate psychological barriers, or through psychological reinforcement training, sexual behavior training, and sexual skill guidance to achieve the purpose of extending the time of sexual life, so as to satisfy both spouses.
The role of the doctor - the coach of the doctor
Coach responsibilities: treat physical pain, complete sexual behavior training, sexual skill guidance, psychological recovery training and other related training, and will reach the ideal state of sexual life after training.
In fact, many people's premature ejaculation also involves physiological causes, such as common urethritis, balanitis, prostatitis, etc., which can induce premature ejaculation. Therefore, it is necessary to make a comprehensive examination before treating premature ejaculation, which can eliminate the causes and achieve symptomatic treatment. Secondly, it is a guidance coach and psychological intensive training for sexual behavior. According to the clinical data of Zhongshan Andrology Hospital last year, 46.3% of people have premature ejaculation which is not directly caused by physiological causes, which indicates that premature ejaculation of this group is probably caused by psychological barriers.
For example, many people said that he had premature ejaculation at home but did not have premature ejaculation when he went out to stay in a hotel, others said that he did not have premature ejaculation when he changed with this person, and others said that his premature ejaculation simply did not meet the requirements of his sexual partner, etc. These seemingly strange phenomena actually told us that sexual life is not only physical participation, but psychological participation is also important, and just the most prone to problems is psychological.
Some people are highly nervous and excited before their human life. They are full of sexual images in their minds, and even think about what posture they will use to say, etc., but once they get to the point, they will do it in a hurry, which will inevitably end with regret. This is the true portrayal of people with high psychological sensitivity in their sexual life. For such groups, psychological reinforcement and correct sexual concepts must be guided.
At the same time, there are many people who ejaculate too fast because of sexual posture problems. Some men have been under the image of erotic films for a long time. Here I want to tell you that erotic films are not only simple piston movements, but also artistic and purposeful requirements. So the more you study, the shorter the time, and premature ejaculation is more likely to occur.
Recovery and improvement methods of premature ejaculation: three points of physical treatment, five points of training recovery, two points of self-regulation, complete the treatment and training of this process, and restore or improve to the desired ideal state.
The complete treatment of premature ejaculation is not a simple one-size-fits-all treatment, nor can it be completed only with the participation of doctors. Many people have done the relevant pathological treatment of premature ejaculation, and they all say that it has little effect. In fact, everyone has ignored a problem. The main body of premature ejaculation is themselves, and doctors only play the role of teachers.
Therefore, doctors and patients must complete the process of three points of physical treatment, five points of training recovery and two points of self-regulation. It is not a matter of one person. Don't forget that the disease is yours and the cure is the doctor's. In popular words, it is the master who introduces a skill to himself.
Physiological treatment is to solve your pathological reasons first, and then conduct further guidance training. Guidance training is a big project in essence. It is difficult for each patient to change their psychological control and ejaculation habits. So during this period, patients put down their burden, doctors put down their body, and in-depth communication between the two is the most basic principle. After that, you can have sex under the guidance of the doctor, and adjust yourself according to your improvement, so that premature ejaculation can be cured.
Purpose of treating premature ejaculation
The simple requirement for most men to treat premature ejaculation is to prolong their sexual life, which is the statement that the concept of sex is incorrect. In fact, the purpose of treating the depth of premature ejaculation is not only to prolong the time of sexual life, but also to meet the needs of sexual partners, both physical and mental pleasure, and ultimately improve the quality of sexual life through skilled sexual behavior, diversified sexual skills, correct sexual habits, high psychological quality in the sexual life scene and accurate grasp of the other party's sexual response signals.
