Post Date December, 03 2023
See through TA's "micro lies"
All types of male and female relationships, from the beginning of physiological awakening, will gradually precipitate to a relatively stable state of coexistence, which is a process of mutual exposure and systematic desensitization. You are no longer as sensitive to TA as before, and you are no longer excited by his little mood fluctuations.
Research shows that there is no small difference in the number of lies between men and women. Men tell five lies a day, while women only three. Women usually lie to make the other party feel better, while men lie to make themselves superior.
If the appearance of micro-expressions in the blind date stage is to hide their defects, the micro-expressions in the relationship stage are more to hide what they have done that is harmful to the other party. There are some lies that are white and some are not so white. In addition, micro-expressions also play a role in coordinating the relationship between husband and wife. For example, when repairing the relationship between two people, we can find the problem more accurately. Considering that the elders in their 50s and 60s still have infidelity and divorce behaviors, combined with the average situation that humans have to lie three times in 10 minutes, it is necessary to be alert to the small cracks between you, whether it is to prevent the disease before it happens or to "accumulate food widely". You know, men and women have to be careful these days!
Watch out for these moments!
If you find the following behaviors in the conversation, be careful, TA may be lying!
1. Rub your nose to hide the truth
When a person lies, the excess blood in his body flows to his face, causing the cavernous structure in his nose to expand by several millimeters. The liar will feel uncomfortable with his nose, so he will inadvertently touch it.
2. Looking into the other person's eyes, lying
Unlike what you imagine or show in TV dramas, if you don't look at my eyes, you won't lie. Be careful that the liar looks at your eyes to see if his trick is successful. Conversely, interrupting eye contact does not mean the other person is lying.
3. Repeat the typical way of lying to your question stiffly
When answering your question, the obvious blunt repetition shows that the TA is guilty. For example, you ask: "Have you ever been to the TA's house?" "I have never been to the TA's house."
4. The man shrugged his right shoulder and lied
At the end of the first episode of the first season of "Lieto Me", Dr. Lightman walked past a couple of men and women. The man tried to explain to each other that "I will definitely divorce" and subconsciously shrugged his shoulders. As you must have guessed, he would never divorce for her.
5. When you can't recall things backwards, things must be fabricated
So don't lie easily. If you are not sure, others will use this method to test you. Ask: "What did you do yesterday?" "I went to wash the car, then had lunch and sent something to a friend.".
6. When you say something like "how can I know", you know the answer by raising your eyebrows
For example, when talking about the situation of the third child in the main room, the person concerned may say "How can I know" quickly and carefully observe the eyebrows of the TA. Be careful, maybe TA's heart is beating wildly‘
7. People who are too focused on lying may slow down the action of what they are doing and lie
This has been confirmed. Lightman slows down the folding of clothes when Jenkins comes. Dr. Wu Qi also told us that if we focus on language, we will not pay attention to other things at present. Usually, habitual gestures will be reduced. Psychological resources are mainly used to fabricate clues, while human attention is always limited. So don't just listen to what the other person said, but also pay attention to the intonation and other body language of the other person.
8. Surprised expression for more than a second Pretend surprised
This will happen if you put too much force on your expression. Other macro expressions will not last more than 4 seconds.
9. The language of deliberately keeping distance lies
Say how about "that person" instead of "Zhang San". When Clinton mentioned the adultery case, he did not mention Lewinsky's name but said "that woman" instead, which is the best example.
10. Put your hand near the eyebrow bone and be ashamed
This little subconscious action may show that TA feels guilty about you. Think about it, what is it?
11. Take a look at the other person and then look away. The other person raises his chin slightly to show that he is embarrassed
This happens between a man and a woman. Hurry to cultivate your eyes and be careful of the hidden dangers around you.
12. When talking about something, suddenly turn around and lie
TA doesn't just dare to face you, because when she lies, she just wants to stay in the smallest space.
13. When you say "yes", your head shakes slightly unconsciously to lie
It's a pity that her body betrayed her language.
