Sexual life emphasizes being unrestrained and unrestrained, which will create a more stimulating and enjoyable feeling. Being unrestrained and unrestrained also requires a certain limit. Some minefields should not be touched, as it can damage the nature of sexual activity and even affect the relationship between men and women. So, what are the minefields in sexual life?
1. Forcing the other party to engage in sexual activity
Sometimes, there may be situations where one party becomes interested and the other party completely refuses to have sex due to fatigue or other reasons. At this point, it is actually necessary to empathize with the other party and temporarily put aside the idea of having sex. If the other party is forced to have sex at this time, even if they compromise due to love, there will be no particularly stimulating or joyful feelings during this sexual activity. You will also plant seeds of disrespect and love in the other person's heart, which can easily lead to problems in the long run.
2. No foreplay
Foreplay is very important for women, and for men, it may feel dispensable psychologically. It takes time for women to enter the state, and it also takes time for their bodies to prepare. If not given time, it is easy for women to be injured by frequent implantation. So having no foreplay is a common minefield in sexual life, and if you want both parties to enjoy sex, gentle and meticulous foreplay is essential.
3. Call the wrong name
Some people become too immersed in sexual activity and lose their basic judgment, or they cannot help but call someone else by the wrong name. This is a very awkward situation that can hurt the other person's heart, and the sexual activity will definitely not continue. This kind of low-level mistake should never be made. If there is someone else in your heart, don't force yourself to be with them. It is also cruel for them to discover that they have someone else in their heart.
4. Pretend to moan
The woman's moaning sound is a natural aphrodisiac for men, which makes them more excited and engaged. But the premise is that this moaning sound is from the woman's heart, naturally expressed, rather than deliberately pretending. The man is not a fool, he can distinguish whether he is truly enjoying or cooperating. If he moans too falsely, it will have a counterproductive effect. So if you really don't feel happy, you can moan a few times, but don't moan too falsely as it can affect the atmosphere.
5. Don't be distracted
Being distracted is also a minefield of sexual activity, and sexual activity itself requires both parties to fully immerse themselves in it in order to achieve a thorough feeling. If one party is distracted, sexual activity seems to lack motivation. If one's mind wanders and the other party discovers it, it can also affect emotions and give people a feeling of disrespect and lack of love.
The above are several minefields of sexual activity. Sexual life is the bond that connects the emotions between men and women, so don't encounter minefields, otherwise it will not only ruin the mood, but also cause problems in the relationship.