Post Date December, 02 2023
Xiaofang's wife Lily didn't initially take the turmoil of her wedding night to heart, thinking it was a psychological issue caused by her wedding. However, unexpectedly, Xiaofang's behavior became increasingly strange afterwards. According to her introduction, as a fund manager, Xiao Fang usually faces a lot of work pressure. Gradually, he discovers that his behavior has mutated, starting with erectile dysfunction and then experiencing strange sexual activities, such as hoping that Lily would urinate in his mouth, I fell in love with him until we got married, and he has never done this before. Now, no matter how much work pressure he has, he shouldn't ask me to do this. This is clearly disregarding my dignity and disrespect me! "Lily was very dissatisfied, but Xiao Fang also had reasons, We are husband and wife, and Hitler would even make his lover throw urine in his mouth. Why can't you help me relieve the pressure? "Lily felt even more aggrieved." You have a lot of work pressure, and if you have to find a way to reduce blood pressure, you should go get impotence treated. Why should you torture me? I am a normal person, and I need to have normal sex! "As a result, the two of them argued first, and in the end, they had a terrible fight, which ended in divorce.
Society is progressing, and competition is also intensifying. For thousands of years, men have been regarded as the backbone of families, which puts even greater pressure on their fellow men. And these pressures come from various aspects, including life, work, interpersonal relationships, and so on. A survey shows that 70% of respondents have experienced an increase in life pressure. Under such heavy pressure, men struggle hard. Men under heavy pressure are easily affected by diseases. A data from the National Center for Health Research (NCFHS) shows that men have a life expectancy of 6 years shorter than women, and their quality of life is usually lower than that of women.
On the other hand, a man's personality determines that "when a man has tears, he doesn't flick them lightly, and when a man is sick, he doesn't go to see them". When the disease is still in its early stages, men often choose to carry it as long as they can, and endure it as long as they can. They do not seek medical attention until the condition seriously affects the quality of work and life, and often miss the optimal treatment time. Statistics show that men seek medical treatment one week later than women on average after falling ill. In addition to their strong endurance, it also indicates that men lack understanding of themselves and do not pay enough attention to their own health status.
Experts say that psychogenic factors account for the vast majority of ED patients, especially among young patients. Clinical findings show that the causes of ED in the elderly are mostly organic, such as insufficient arterial blood supply, diabetes, traumatic diseases, etc. Among young people, it is more due to work pressure, social pressure, family pressure, etc. Xiao Lin in the case is typical.
Experts say that the current treatment for ED is quite mature, and the Kobayashi couple in the case did not find the correct treatment method, which led to the deterioration of the marital relationship. If Xiaolin felt a lot of work pressure and promptly sought treatment from a psychologist, adopting the correct venting methods, he would not end up with a divorce.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
