Harmonious sexual life is the foundation for couples to warm up their emotions and can improve their family happiness index. However, as we age, coupled with the fact that our physical strength and energy are significantly lower than before, various work and life pressures have significantly reduced the quality of sexual life. In order to keep sexual life fresh for a long time, an old man and wife need to follow the following 6 tips to enjoy a sexual life.
What six secrets do elderly couples master to obtain the joy of sexual love?
1. Keep smiling
Couples should be tolerant and understand each other, don't care about anything, and don't get too close to each other. Learn to smile and be happy. When trying out sexual gestures and techniques, you can't follow the instructions at all. Sometimes, you can turn into a giggle, turning every new sexual encounter into fun, which can shorten the distance between your husband and wife.
2. Constant sexual love
No matter what is lacking in novelty, it can become boring. In fact, the same is true of sexual life, which is the pursuit of new experiences and continuous innovation in sexual love. Try making love in different environments and rooms, such as the office, car, restaurant, balcony, etc. When physical strength allows, try making love. Using sex toys rationally can increase sexual stimulation.
3. Accept the physical changes of the other person
As we age, various organs gradually decline, as do sexual organs. Women have dry vaginas, sagging breasts, and men have less persistent penile erections. Their sexual abilities decline, and they directly accept physical changes from the other person
4. There is no doubt about it. Need more communication
The scariest thing between couples is suspicion, as is sexual love. Don't worry too much about small things. Couples can communicate and communicate honestly. If one party is interested in something, the other party should listen carefully and concentrate. In addition, when discussing sexual related issues, first give encouragement and support to the other party, and then put forward your own suggestions and needs.
5. Plan romantic time
Indeed, sexual life must be allowed to flow naturally, but a reasonable arrangement of sexual life plans between couples can easily promote harmony in sexual life. Nowadays, people are very busy on weekdays, even dragging their bodies home to sleep late. This can be arranged on Saturday morning or evening. Plan one of these days and make an appointment to go to bed at 10 o'clock to adjust your mood.
6. Follow the other person
In the process of sexual intercourse and marital communication, the most taboo is multitasking, and one must pay attention to the mood of the other party. Turn off all electronic products 30 minutes before sex, set your phone to barrier-free mode and mute. You cannot play games or send emails during sex.
Warm reminder
In fact, as long as both men and women pay a little attention to sex, they can achieve a harmonious sexual life. Establish a harmonious and happy family environment, communicate with each other more, not blindly complain or blame each other, and be more tolerant and caring. In addition, it is necessary to arrange the current time and frequency reasonably, not too frequently. Women should never have sex during their menstrual and puerperal periods, and should not induce gynecological diseases. Attention must be paid to personal hygiene and contraception before and after sex.