Women like to say irony, which sometimes makes men feel headache because many men can't figure out which words a woman says are true or which are false. Not only are they labeled as "indecisive", but they also make themselves exhausted. As a thoughtful and qualified husband, you must understand when you are speaking sarcastically. The following five women's favorite irony, men must understand.
First sentence: Husband, you are really bad
Usually, when a woman is flirted or praised by a man, she likes to say 'husband, you are really bad'. In fact, it is not a woman's negation of a man's behavior, but a praise of his behavior. Therefore, men should not take it for granted and get angry at this moment. Instead, they should say, 'Wife, do you just like your husband's bad appearance?'. If a man could give such a 'shameless' answer, then a woman would definitely be very shy.
Summary: When a woman accepts a man, in the world of women, even if he has many shortcomings, in the eyes of women, his husband is also the best. Therefore, if it is not a serious denial, men should not seriously contradict, but mischievous response. Otherwise, the originally coquettish flirtation will turn into a heartbreaking argument.
Second sentence: Husband, you're too annoying
When a woman receives an expensive gift from her husband or an act of spending money on her wife, she will say that her husband is too annoying, and even nag about him being too fond of spending money. At this time, the woman's heart is actually happy. At this moment, a man only needs to say 'everything I do is not all because I love you too much' to dissolve the woman's affectation. But some men may say, 'I bought you a gift, but you still feel like I'm a black sheep. Is there any energy in it?'.
Summary: Housekeeping women are all good women. Occasionally, she may complain about you spending money to buy her gifts, but she will also spare no effort to buy you appropriate clothes. If your wife is such a woman, don't let her be stingy. You should know that she loves you more than she loves herself. For such a wife, you must cherish it well and not easily get angry with her. It's not that she doesn't understand romance, but that she loves you too much.
Third sentence: You go, I don't want to talk to you anymore
It is difficult for us to see our own shortcomings, but it is easy to see the shortcomings of our loved ones. Couples need to have a 'picky' attitude and give timely reminders to each other. When a lover's shortcomings are corrected by oneself, their first reaction may be unhappy, and they may even say, 'Since you despise me, why are you still with me?'? Since you despise me, then, you go, I don't want to talk to you anymore. At this point, a man's embrace is enough, rather than a confrontation.
Summary: Everyone shows instinctive displeasure at the moment of being corrected by others, but after the incident, they will reflect on others' correction. Especially for women, when men point out their shortcomings too directly, they may find it difficult to digest them for a while, leading to a tantrum. At this point, women are not really blaming the man they love deeply, but rather expressing their instinctive emotions.
Fourth irony: Get lost
When men and women are together, there will always be some arguments over trivial matters in life, which may arise from different perspectives or misunderstandings between the two parties. When women cannot argue with men, they will say 'get lost'. At this point, men should not really roll off, but rather say, 'Why do I have to roll off when you ask me to? Today, I still don't roll off'. As long as you are strong enough to beg for nothing, what you will ultimately get is a woman's laughter and tears, raising your hand to surrender.
Summary: Many times, women ask men to leave, but in fact, they want men to make concessions or get closer to themselves in certain things. When a woman is arguing, she likes her brain to say some harsh words. To men, these harsh words are very sad. In fact, the more harsh words a woman says during an argument, the more it proves that a woman loves her.
Fifth irony: Let's get divorced (let's break up)
Divorce or breakup is the most hurtful sentence between lovers, but how many have never said such words to their loved ones? How to determine whether a woman's breakup or divorce is true or false? Namely, when calm, divorce or divorce with an apology tone is usually true, while inexplicable breakups or divorces between two people after arguing, breaking promises, or being left out are usually fake.
Summary: When women mention divorce or breakup, men should not be anxious, sad or crazy, but ask themselves: Have they ignored the woman's feelings in this relationship or marriage. And in the process of getting along in the future, take more care of, care about, and care about your own woman.
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