Precautions for the boy's first night. Men are sexual leaders, and they often raise sexual topics in their interactions. Young people often encounter unexpected problems during this process. Let's introduce the precautions for boys on their first night, which may be helpful to you in the future!
Avoid excessive excitement.
Excitement is natural, as years of expectations and desires can finally be fulfilled. But the first sexual failure is often due to excessive excitement. The overly excited brain is very sensitive to sexual stimulation, which can easily lead to impending premature ejaculation, failed sexual intercourse, and easily leave a shadow on future life. If you feel too excited, don't rush to bed. You can calm down first, sit on the sofa, take off your clothes, let both parties get used to each other's nudity, and have gentle contact. In this way, you can relax the overly excited brain nerves, which are about to arrive.
Boys are more concerned about women's feelings.
If a woman is also experiencing sex for the first time, she is much more nervous than you! She needs your care and tenderness to relieve her nervousness. If you are too sexually anxious, when a woman's tension is not resolved and sexual excitement is not forced in, it will only lead to severe pain in the woman, and even sexual intercourse cannot continue. In order to eliminate a woman's tension and make her feel your love, when a woman's sexual excitement is aroused, her tension will disappear, and the sexual organs will also begin to prepare for sex. At this point, you can enter the sexual intercourse stage.
3. Familiarize oneself with the position of female genital organs.
This is by no means an unnecessary topic. In China, where sex education is lagging behind, many people cannot find the right position for the first time. This may seem absurd, but the essence often arises. Because when people are very excited, they just instinctively act, and people without sexual experience may not know the correct position, which is not a joke! In addition to browsing some images provided by sexual knowledge websites, you can also engage in intimacy and caressing before making love, which is easy to succeed.
4. Treat premature ejaculation correctly.
During the first sexual intercourse, men may fail due to a lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement. You should forgive this situation. This is not premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and the accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, the tacit cooperation between the two parties will soon return to normal. After ejaculation, men should not have sex for a period of time. They can try having sex again after they shouldn't have done it, which is usually successful.