Post Date December, 02 2023
1. Keyword: Girls treat them as if they don't know any ghosts
Q: # Crow Love Question # Crow is Big. There is a female classmate in our class who had a mediocre relationship before. Last time I participated in a competition and asked her to help sing, she was happy to agree. Afterwards, we had a great chat on QQ and cared about what I said about her. I promised to invite her to dinner, but for the next half month, either she was busy or I didn't have time, but I still chatted on QQ. She asked me about my weight or something, but I teased her and didn't answer. She always said it in a father's tone, calling me my son, but later changed it despite my strong opposition. I have asked her several times recently when she has time, but she is very busy and has not responded positively on QQ. I feel like I can't continue chatting. Today, I ran into her at the restaurant and she lowered her head and pretended not to see her. Stupid, seek advice!
Answer: First of all, you need to know that all the behaviors that girls start doing with you are more interested in you, including the questions she asks. And I think there are two reasons why I will ignore you for such behavior in the future.
The first one is that the topic you are talking about is very boring and boring. Talking to girls just like checking their household registration, what are you doing? Are you happy today? So of course, I will become less and less interested in you. The second reason is that you have been joking too much in the past. When a girl asks you various questions, you refuse to tease them, which can attract you in a short time. However, over time, it will create a strong resistance in the girl's heart, feeling that you are not sincere.
So what you need to do now is temporarily freeze for a period of time, browse your social media, and chat in the same state as before. Girls are emotional creatures, and when you have fun and interesting conversations, they are willing to chat and come out.
2 keywords: Girls love to flip through their phones, what's wrong with them
Q: # Crow Love Question # Crow Big, I have been talking to my girlfriend for a while, maybe because it's a different place, she doesn't feel secure. If we meet, she will ask me for my phone password, WeChat QQ password, and so on. I am very disgusted with this matter, and I won't give it to her. She is angry because I haven't given it to her, and sometimes she secretly looks at my phone password. When it comes to this, she may think I have some small secrets, but in fact, there is nothing, I am very disgusted with anyone touching my phone, and she always wants me to listen to her. How could she listen to everything? I immediately became disgusted with her, please help me understand!
Answer: First of all, you need to forgive a girl because she is from a different place, so it is normal for her to feel insecure. For the first question, my advice to you is to communicate with girls. Go tell her you don't like this, you can discuss with her how to give her a piece of evidence and contact her more, that's what you think.
For the second question, the girl said she has always wanted to listen to her, so since you are disgusted, you need to think about a problem. If there is a problem with the framework, the reason is value. Who has higher value? If your value is high, then it's normal for her to listen to you. If your value is lower than hers, then it's hard to say. You need to work hard to change.
3 keywords: Is intuition trustworthy?
Q: Hello, Da Da. I am a freshman and have been wanting to fall in love since I first started school. At first, I chased a girl (but she was the type who played well with all kinds of men) and ultimately failed. Recently, I had a good conversation with a girl I met during my military training. She often asked me to go to the library, and she also told me about her roommate's experience of being chased. She also said that a boy was chasing her, but she didn't feel it. She asked me if I would go to eat when I was about to return from self-study in the evening, and I decided to go. Then she told me that she wasn't actually hungry. I just want to know if my intuition is right?
Answer: Brother, you should first get to know more about the correct way to get along with girls? We also emphasize two major aspects in our Lianzhao: first, to attract girls and establish a sense of security with them. However, when you approach girls in a very wrong way, you feel that you are not attractive or challenging, and in the end, you will definitely not be able to get them. Therefore, you need to first change your correct thinking about dating. For more details, please refer to Lianzhao's books.
And the girl behind you really likes you and has a good impression of you. But you still need to shout at yourself, don't expose too much sense of need at once, just give some rewards occasionally.
4 keywords; Expose a sense of need
Q: # Crow Love Question # Crow Da Da. During the first month of meeting her sister, she accidentally exposed her sense of need and hinted that she had a good impression of her. Shortly after, we held hands and kissed each other, and spent a few days as boyfriend and girlfriend. Later, she told me that she was asked to kiss her at first, but she was not used to rejecting others. She also said that this speed was too fast, and she couldn't accept it. She asked me to give her some time to adapt, But at the same time, it was also said that I didn't have the feeling of being moved by me. When I felt it, we would be together. Next, we wouldn't be able to chat as well as before. Is this because I'm not attractive enough
Answer: No mistake, it's because when she's with you, she doesn't think you're as attractive as she imagined. A big reason is that you exposed your sense of need, allowing girls to master this relationship, and during the process of being together, you didn't establish your attraction well. All you need to do is to re establish your attraction, showcase your value, have a good conversation with girls, and reduce your sense of need, That's how girls start to feel about you.
