It is inevitable for two people who like each other and are in love to experience some setbacks and difficulties. Almost all love can only see the rainbow after going through wind and rain. Therefore, for lovers, we should cherish this hard-won relationship, but when we get along with others, it is inevitable that many problems will occur. After all, it is the first time that two people who have never been together will have bumps and bumps, To avoid breaking up, these nine taboos must not occur in love.
1. You are always doing things that the other party doesn't like
If you love him, why do you do things he doesn't like? Are you unable to understand his words or his feelings? Do you think you did the right thing? If you think it's wrong, can you change it for him?
The simplest is that many men like smoking, drinking, playing games and playing cards, while most women do not like this. Can't you change as a man?
You won't change for him, does that mean you don't love enough?
2. Initially very good, but slowly cold
How many people's love is from the initial vows to the final form of strangers. After getting it, people begin to feel that they don't pay attention to it. In particular, men are prone to this situation. Once they get women, they have no feelings for women.
Those who chase women to men every day, if they only exist in the early stage of love, then this person should not be needed. All women understand this, and no one is stupid. They will look up to you if they don't break up with you.
3. No understanding and tolerance at all
Men and women often quarrel with each other over some small matters, and no one will bow his head. There is no understanding, no tolerance. The quarrel has become a habit. The fierce copy will lead to a cold war, and no one will care if they ignore the other.
Anyway, it's better to share the trouble with you every day.
4. Will not take the initiative to reconcile after a quarrel
The person who is willing to take the initiative to reconcile after the quarrel must be the one who loves deeply, because he cares, because he feels that his face is not important to the other party. However, there are always some people who not only take the initiative, but also do not give the other side a step when they apologize, and they are completely trying to make things bigger. This is really enough.
5. Prepare to break up, just lack of opportunities
Always thinking that two people are not good enough and want to break up for a better person. Such couples will be divided sooner or later. It is only a matter of time. Because there is no love, the rest is useless.
6. Dating with you becomes less and I don't care
When two people are dating, they are completely indifferent to each other. They have not had the feeling of sticking together. If you can not speak, you will not speak. When you are around the other side, you are holding your mobile phone in your hands.
Such lovers either change their minds or really can't live any longer.
7. People are not available when needed
The more I need you, the more I can't find anyone. I'm sick, my aunt. When I'm in trouble and in a bad mood, I have to spend it alone. Why do such lovers come? It's just taking a shit in the manger.
8. Lack of common language
The two people have no desire to communicate at all, and they just have different opinions when talking. They can quarrel without saying a few words, which is absolutely speechless.
9. Can't feel the love of the other party
If you always feel that the love of the other side is superficial and you can't feel the happiness of being loved at all, then you are really inappropriate. No matter whether the other side pays or not, you are no longer in love.
Summary: If the above nine situations often occur in your love, then undoubtedly, even if you enter the marriage hall, it will not last long. Marriage is much more troublesome than love. Love is a matter of two people, but marriage will involve two families, and experience more. Once these taboos in love occur, if you do not correct them, it will only make your relationship worse and worse, If you want to cherish your other half, please don't have these problems again, otherwise you will end up with nothing.