1、 Don't try to stop the wife's nagging. The unspoken rule tells us that women's nagging is the execution procedure set up subconsciously and subconsciously. It is impossible to stop the operation after being reminded by the husband. If the husband's response to the wife's nagging is too tough, it will not help stop the nagging, but may cause civil war in the family.
2、 When the wife complains that her husband doesn't do housework, you should never reply or try to refute. The hidden rule tells us that most women are willing to work without complaint. Her criticism or complaint that you don't love to work and don't do housework doesn't mean that she really requires you to participate in housework. Her complaint is nothing but to vent her emotions.
3、 Women like to be coaxed, and so does your wife. When your wife expresses dissatisfaction with you, your best way is to coax her with sweet words in love. The unspoken rule tells us that when the wife is coaxed to the north by her husband, it is the time when the wife is exhausted and does not need you to pay for her life.
4、 The husband had better not take charge of the family economy. The hidden rule tells us that the biggest disadvantage of the husband taking charge of the family economy is that he can only control himself without spending money, and can't control his wife's consumption desire at all. Therefore, as long as a man is responsible for making money, the use of money in the family and the happiness of spending money are all his wife's business. The husband should close his eyes and mouth when he sees his wife entering the door.
5、 Don't think your wife doesn't know how much money you have in your pocket, and don't think your wife can't find the private money you have hidden. Therefore, a smart man should truthfully report where his money is spent. Of course, the hidden rule tells us that if you spend money on other women, you should adhere to the hard-headed spirit of "never say anything if you die".
6、 Men should never try to let their wives report to you where they have put their money. That is something that most women can't explain clearly. The hidden rules tell us that most women have no plans to spend money and no plans. Impulsive consumption is a common disease of women, and a variety of marketing methods are designed for women.
7、 Don't think that your wife will not know what you are telling lies or lies. Most wise wives will not verify the truth of what you say in front of you. They will give you face in public. However, if she catches you talking nonsense once, you will be completely ruined, because she will never trust you foolishly again.
8、 Family is a place where people are reasonable and don't need to be reasonable at all. The unspoken rule tells us that if you argue with your wife for what you think is right, the final outcome of the debate is likely to be beyond your expectation, because women will wonder why men are so impotent. Therefore, the end of most couples' quarrels will always be the husband who is wrong. Have you ever seen the wife admit the mistake?
9、 Don't tell the other party about your premarital love experience. The hidden rule tells us that both husband and wife will be bitter about the other party's first love or predecessor. Therefore, telling the other party more details will add one more heroism, or one more competitive goal that will kill you.