Post Date December, 02 2023
I am from the south and met my wife while working in the north. At that time, there were many girls chasing me, and my wife and her family gave me a lot of help and warmth, so I chose to be with my wife and take root in the north.
After marriage, the dominance of my mother-in-law and wife made me feel bored. In this situation, I met a divorced and gentle woman and secretly touched each other.
After my wife learned about this, she frequently went to my lover's house and work to make trouble. The other party couldn't resist my wife's torture and took the initiative to break up with me.
During the period of infidelity, I also reflected on myself and tried to please my wife in various ways. However, she used malicious language to mock me and even refused to live a married life with me, citing intimate behavior with other women, claiming that my body was dirty.
I had planned to leave, but I didn't give up on my young child, so I had to endure my wife's sarcasm shamelessly.
At the same time, the wife also cheated and had an affair with two opposite sex members at the same time. One of the men is her first love, and the other man is from Shanghai who works here. These two people are both married men.
When my wife and her two lovers flirt on the phone, they never shy away from me. When I scold her for being shameless, she will refute me. Are you both cheating people now, and have the right to point fingers at me?
Faced with my wife's difficulties, I propose a divorce. My wife also agreed to divorce, on the condition that I leave the house clean and take away the child.
At that time, I just wanted to be released earlier and my wife was willing to voluntarily give me custody of the child, so I quickly signed a divorce agreement with her.
In the third year of my divorce, which is this year, I found a partner to renew my marriage. At this moment, my wife made a scene with my current partner and begged me to remarry her.
To be honest, after experiencing both being a father and a mother in the past two years, I have become more and more convinced that my son should grow up in a healthy family. Considering this, I want to remarry my wife. However, when I think about the excessive dominance of my wife and mother-in-law, as well as the rightful behavior of my wife when she stole the Han dynasty, I have to back down. Because I'm afraid of repeating the same mistakes.
Here is a brief introduction to my mother-in-law's situation:
A tough woman who is almost fifty years old, she is involved in everything in our family. He often scolds me and says' I'm wrong 'in front of my wife.
Reply:
I can understand your pain and helplessness, but in the face of the dominance of my mother-in-law and wife, cheating should not be used as a way of venting.
I'm afraid you still don't know why your mother-in-law dares to point fingers at your marriage because your career is not strong enough.
The ancients have long concluded that humans are good at being bullied, while horses are good at being ridden.
The correct way to reverse the dominance of your mother-in-law and wife is to work hard, rather than using infidelity to vent anger.
So, do you dare to admit your laziness at work now?
So, let me say a few heartfelt words to you:
If you neglect your career,
1) In a few years, your handsome demeanor will become a floating cloud, and by then, how many women will make you crazy about flowers?
2) When your son grows up, he won't understand your helplessness and will only complain that you gave him an incomplete childhood.
3) To make others admire you, you need to have the capital to be admired by others.
4) When encountering any setback, one cannot choose to avoid it, but to identify and solve the problem.
So, the strength of your mother-in-law and your wife is nothing more than a hatred for iron than steel.
Suggestion: Return to your family and avoid leaving regrets for yourself and your children. And from then on, I will restrain my playfulness and remember that God rewards diligence in my work.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
