My wife ran away from home for no reason. After three years, she came back in a mess. I was furious to learn the truth

My wife and I have been married for seven years and have a five-year-old son. The wife is virtuous. She is in charge of me and outside. With the cooperation of two people, she has a very moist life. However, such a family of three was destroyed by his wife's leaving. Three years ago, I went home from work as usual. There was no usual hot three dishes and one soup on the table, and the children were not at home. I thought they had gone for a walk outside, waiting left and right, waiting for my mother to call me and ask me to pick up the children home.

I was depressed when I heard that. Isn't the child brought by my wife? How could it come to my mother's house?

I called my wife in a hurry and was in the state of shutting down. I began to worry. I went to my mother's house and asked her what was happening. The mother said, "She brought the child here and said that she had something to deal with. Let me wait until you get off work to pick up the child." I panicked and took the child home. Her clothes were missing in the wardrobe. The suitcase, her ID card, documents and other things were gone.

My first reaction was to call her mother's family, who said they didn't see her. I tried to recall the recent time when we didn't fight, but even if we did, we couldn't leave home without warning, which worried us. I called all the phone numbers of my friends and relatives I could think of, but there was no news of her. I even called the police, but there was no news.

After she left, I was absent-minded about everything I did. After a long search, my parents advised me to give up her. Maybe she found another good family. I don't believe that she is so cruel. At that time, I was depressed for a long time. Looking at the young children, I felt more and more distressed. I asked my parents to help me take care of my children and work hard. For three years, when I lie on our double bed at night, my heart will ache.

After years of hard work, my children have grown up healthily and my career is stable. My parents thought that I was too hard to live alone and asked me to marry another one, but I didn't have that mind at all. She came back with a familiar face, mixed with some haggard. At the moment I saw him, I couldn't help crying into tears. Holding her for a long time, she refused to let go. She also cried. I don't know whether I was moved or I regretted it.

After calming down, she began to tell me about the situation in the past few years: she has always been thinking about her predecessor and broke up because of economic problems. Now that her predecessor has developed, she comes to see her again. In a moment of obsession, he abandoned his husband and left with him. But she is not doing well. After her predecessor became rich, she became manic, tortured her every day, humiliated her, and even imprisoned her at home. She didn't have the face to contact me, so she kept dragging. As she spoke, she took off her jacket and showed me her scarred back.

At that moment, I was so angry that I ran away from home for three years and ran away with other men without any sign. I hated my teeth. But seeing the scar on her back, I couldn't bear it and couldn't be cruel to her. She said she wanted to come back and continue to live with me, but I got tangled. What should I do with such a cruel woman?

reply:

Your wife ignored the family for her own sake and left. It can be seen that you are inferior to her predecessor. A word from her predecessor, she can see that her heart is not in the family, and what she gives you is just a superficial phenomenon. Now, after being wronged, I think of the person beside me. This kind of person is selfish to the bottom.

A marriage without trust will only be riddled with holes. Now you have learned the truth. If you can't let go of it, you can't get back together. Don't take her in for the sake of compassion in your heart. You can't get out of the way. Accepting her will only make you miserable. Think before you act. Think carefully.