Marriage is like a piece of jade, and even the most perfect looking jade may have flaws. Some people may not be willing to give up this flawed jade, but it does not prove that they will persist in holding onto this flawed marriage. It must have been because there were problems with your marriage, and my wife saw the problem, so she chose to withdraw midway. But what about you? There seems to be some reluctance in my bones. Can I delay my wife's divorce? The answer is uncertain, because generalizing it is perfunctory, and only answering it according to the situation is sincere towards you.
Dragging on exhausted love may make marriage even more painful. Sometimes love is like this, as if it is on the brink of death, but it seems to bring a little dawn, which makes people very disappointed, even hopeless, but also makes people want to survive in the cracks. So, they wait and wait for marriage to see if they can still come back to life and put love back on track. My wife proposes a divorce, but the man procrastinates without giving an answer. Either because he still loves her sincerely and is unwilling to let her go, or because his wife's behavior makes him unhappy and he retaliates intentionally. No matter what kind of person you belong to, I just ask you, is it okay to hold onto your heart like this? Two people who want to divorce but haven't divorced are living under the same roof. Apart from embarrassment, they argue, which is a painful life. But what if one day their wife changes her mind and doesn't divorce? Can there be such a day? Unexpectedly, the two began to deadlocked, dragging on this exhausted marriage, each in pain.
With a hopeful love, marriage may be reborn. It's possible that your wife wants a divorce because of her wishful thinking, but she keeps clamoring for you to sign the divorce agreement every day, which will also annoy you. If you can tolerate all of this and there is indeed hope of a broken marriage, then you might as well delay signing it. Of course, when procrastinating, you should also take some rescue measures, otherwise your procrastination behavior will make her even more disgusted with you, such as doing things that she has never done before to move her, cooking, doing household chores, buying groceries... those things that she has always been doing, and you help her do them in the wilderness, showing her your determination to defend your marriage and giving up the idea of divorce. After a long time, she has finally been moved by you, and love has returned to marriage. Don't forget to cherish the hard won happiness at this time.
Dragging meaningless love, marriage is a waste of life. What is meaningless? That is to say, her love for you is completely gone. Don't think you can still make her willing to be your woman. No amount of love you put in can save a woman with a heart of stone. Since your efforts are destined to be unrequited and your offers are destined to be rejected, what use is it for you to dominate this meaningless marriage? Dragging will only delay the happiness of both of you. Since you have loved each other, let her be happy, fulfill her, and also fulfill yourself. Because when you give up on the wrong person, that right person has a place to enter your world. Moreover, as a man, you don't have to worry about losing your youth after divorce, nor do you have to worry about your appearance aging after divorce, nor do you have to worry about your loneliness after divorce, because in this society, men are already strong, and they have more ability and strength to win their own happiness.
Fate is like playing tricks on people. You give up, but the next second you regret it. You drag on unwillingly, and as a result, you miss what later belongs to you. It turns out that marriage still requires careful consideration before knowing whether to let go at will.