My wife cheated for three years and was exposed by me, kneeling down and begging for forgiveness

Since getting married, the combination of mortgage and living expenses, as well as the cost of my child's milk powder and medical expenses, has forced me to double my efforts. In order to save money, I have also reduced the number of times I go home in a year. Every time I miss my child, I can only call my family and listen to their mother and son's voices. After the child turned two years old, her health improved a lot. My wife suggested that I go out to work and switch to a job that is closer to home and does not require long-term business trips.

The proposal is naturally good, but it is difficult to implement. After coming back for a month, I couldn't find a suitable job, and the pressure of life made me gasp for breath.

So, I had to return to my old place and start my old business again. I once again lived a life of getting together and getting away from my wife. After my wife found a job, my stress did indeed decrease a lot. My child was always taken care of by my mother, and life began to show glimmers of hope.

I originally thought that in three to five years, we would have a good life. But I didn't expect that when my child was four years old, I found out that my wife had an affair. In my hometown, cheating on my own woman is a very shameful thing. When I found out that she betrayed me, I suppressed my heartache and insisted on not exposing her. Watching the lovely child grow up day by day, my heart becomes increasingly entangled. The thought of a child growing up in a broken family makes my heart ache. This year, I borrowed some money and opened a small shop.

I have always hoped that my return can make her change her mind. However, after enduring three years of torment, she had no consciousness or repentance, but instead her deeds became increasingly exposed.

The child is in elementary school and is beginning to understand. For the sake of my child's growth, I first spoke to her from the bottom of my heart about this matter. She stared at me with frightened eyes, as if measuring when I first discovered it. I was prepared for her to propose a divorce, but she didn't. She sobbed and begged me to forgive her. Although I feel that emotions cannot be forced, for the sake of the child, I am willing to trust her again. Perhaps she was just like a lost child at that time, forgetting her way home.

Now, she and I are running a small shop together, and the business is good. Many people around us are envious of our relationship, always saying that we haven't had a fight or blushed before. They are a model couple. I always laugh it off, no one knows how much suffering and pain I have experienced in those three years, and no one knows. Looking back on that incident now, my heart still feels a piercing pain.

Reply:

Love sometimes cannot withstand too many tests.

It is often time that can establish a relationship. Over time, love develops, and two people can immerse themselves in each other, making life more enjoyable. However, both time and distance can become weapons to disintegrate them.

Although life may have difficult times, don't forget to manage relationships.

The biggest difference between marriage and love comes from the binding force of responsibility. Just like an iron chain tightly tying two people's hands and feet, moving in a limited field. Although extramarital affairs are like thorns that are difficult to remove, sometimes you don't know if it's feasible without trying. Tolerance often allows us to know the strength and depth of loving someone.

Like you haven't been hurt, love and accept her, because this may be the best way to bloom your marriage, when it's worth it.

(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)