Post Date December, 02 2023
I often hear people say, 'God is fair, and when God closes one of your doors, he will open another window for you.' And I have always believed in this saying, and it has been my motto. Every time I encounter any difficulties or obstacles, I use this sentence to motivate myself. I face them calmly and believe in God's fairness. Every time, I feel that I will always walk strong and find that window. But things are unpredictable, and after I had premature ejaculation, this sentence was overturned.
The protagonist of the story, Xiao Wang, originally had a beautiful marriage, but due to premature ejaculation and his wife feeling unsatisfied in their marital life, there were complaints and dissatisfaction. Now, he also appears to go out at night, making him very suspicious of his wife's betrayal and afraid that his wife will go out to search for her because she cannot find satisfaction here.
In fact, Xiao Wang's heart also understands that his wife's current behavior is related to his sexual ability, and sex is an important factor that cannot be lacking in marriage. Sexual impulse is a primitive nature that is difficult to suppress. The wife's normal physiological needs are difficult to meet. At the beginning, she may have considered the relationship between the two and hoped that her husband's problems could be improved. However, with the passage of time, increasing marital resistance, and sexual repression, the wife finds it difficult to bear it, feeling angry and disappointed with her husband, to the extent that she says harmful words to her husband, "You're not good, you're going to make me suffocate you," and her behavior gradually escalates. It can be said that if the husband's sexual ability issues are not resolved and the wife is a normal woman, then the wife can only cheat or divorce and remarry.
Xiao Wang did not elaborate too much on his contributions to the family, but he could still feel how much this husband hoped to satisfy his wife and make his marriage happy and lasting through his own efforts. I have also been to relevant hospitals for treatment on the issue of sexual ability, spent a lot of money, and endured a lot of physical and psychological pain, but I have not achieved the desired results. I have been disappointed many times and have already felt hopeless. And when my wife talked about it again, I couldn't help but feel very annoyed and angry.
Opinion of Emotional Experts
Marriage is a paradise of happiness, but sometimes it is also a hell of pain. No one wants to live in pain, hope their marriage is unlucky, everyone is trying to make themselves more happy and happy as much as possible. The occurrence of marital problems may be due to one party's behavior highlighting the problem, but it is not a personal matter, but rather a relationship that presents a problem. To solve it, both parties need to participate together.
For men with premature ejaculation who have sexual dysfunction, the biggest fear is that their wives don't understand and say they can't, which will destroy their confidence. The essence of Xiao Wang's problem is to have a correct understanding of the severity of the problem, communicate well with his wife, gain her understanding, and accompany him to treat premature ejaculation. Only when his body recovers can the relationship be reunited!
