Post Date December, 03 2023
My current wife, whom I met six years ago when I worked in Guangdong, talked about it for more than half a year but chose to break up because she was too young. There was no relationship at that time. After breaking up, I met another girl and lived together for a year. The latter made me feel dependent.
The former is capable and independent. I think about how the former will live together with the latter. Finally, I think I am too rational to choose the former. We got married last August. At that time, my thought was that I liked her strong character. She loved me more than I loved her, and would be happy with her in life.
She has a good sister who has been living with her for the past six years. One month after we got married, I went to work at seven o'clock because of work. She went to work at eight o'clock. Considering her hard work, we temporarily separated. During this period, she slept with her good sister. Let's have sex two or three times a month! But I don't know when she began to say that this is not good, that is not good, what selfish, stingy, big man idea, personality is not compatible with these, and said that she doesn't love me.
These are the problems that I think can be completely changed for me. We live together with her sister. Her sister sees me like killing her father. I always wanted to have an independent space to talk about, but there was no chance. My wife and I are both very rational people. I am a kind and thoughtless person. I don't speak as well as she does, but I am all for her good. Now she has ignored me, and I am very confused.
Finally, our conflict escalated. I told her that if there was something wrong with our relationship, you should leave for a few days. Her sister rushed away in anger and threatened never to come again. As a result, my wife suddenly hated me. After repeated communication, I finally realized that my wife was gay. I had known her for six years, but I didn't expect it. But I am a scholar, and I accept them but not divorce them based on their different parents and marriage.
My wife and I talked very well, but within three days she was at home with me one day and left a message with her sister online. This was her last day in the world. My wife passed away as soon as she saw it and never came back.
One day I called her, and she said that my sister drank more than half a bottle of Baijiu that day and put a knife on the bed and asked me to divorce. I was unwilling but afraid of being killed. She agreed. Within three minutes, she began to talk about how to distribute things at home. I haven't responded yet. She kept talking. I was extremely sad and disappointed. She knew that I took my jewelry home when I went to work to argue with her, and she was hurt by her sister, I found that I loved her so much that I couldn't let go.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
