Chen Chun (my wife who has been married for two years) is not only beautiful and has temperament, but also understanding, gentle and virtuous. However, she has always been a major concern for me. Chen Chunai socializes with different types of opposite sex friends. Moreover, their relationship is not as pure as she claimed, and there is a clear ambiguity in it.
When we were dating, Chen Chun once told me that she enjoyed making friends and longed for pure friendship. I still strongly agree with this. As the saying goes, having more friends makes it easier to walk. In life, there are few friends. Generally speaking, girls tend to socialize more with same-sex friends. But Chen Chun is the opposite, most of her friends are of the opposite sex. And the relationship is very close.
Chen Chun said that she has many "male girlfriends" who are older and more mature than her. Through her interactions with them, she gained many unexpected rewards. She cherishes these heterosexual girlfriends like confidants. Except for my date time, Chen Chun will always be with them. It made me feel very uncomfortable. But Chen Chun assured me that she will definitely pay attention to moderation.
After all, men have strong possessiveness, and I am no exception. In order to get rid of Chen Chun's dangerous bad habit, I deliberately advanced the wedding date. I think when a woman gets married and has a child, she will focus solely on taking care of her family and will no longer be idle like before. But that's not the case.
During the honeymoon, Chen Chunwo had no chance to see her boyfriend at home, so she secretly communicated online. Once, out of curiosity, I secretly checked her chat records to see what she and those men were talking about. But the result made my eyes drop. Chen Chun revealed all my and her privacy. The content of the chat is very sensitive, but at the end of the day, it is only about exchanging some of one's true feelings with each other, and there is no trace of her cheating or the other party's ulterior motives. So I'm not good at getting angry with Chen Chun either.
Because I love Chen Chun too much, care about her too much, and am afraid of losing her, I always have a vigilant heart towards her. Afraid that one day she might be taken away by another man. Actually, I don't want her to date any man except me at all. But no matter how much I tried to persuade her, she wouldn't listen and even scolded me for being cautious. I have nothing to do with her.
Once, I came back from a business trip and felt very tired. After taking a shower, I went to bed and fell asleep. In the middle of the night, I felt my mouth dry and my tongue dry. When I opened my eyes, I found that Chen Chun was still sitting by the computer chatting with her boyfriend in deep water, and it was still a video chat. The other party is a handsome and unrestrained old man. After seeing me, Chen Chun didn't panic at all, ignored me and continued to chat with the man. He also enthusiastically pointed at me with a numb face behind him and introduced me to others.
I feel an indescribable discomfort in my heart. The next day, I deliberately coaxed Chen Chun. I said I also wanted to meet your boyfriend and invite him over to our house as a guest. I thought Chen Chun would find an excuse to evade, but unexpectedly she agreed on the spot. Three days later, Chen Chun's best friend arrived from a thousand miles away. The man's name is Wang Yi, and he is the owner of a bar. He is around 40 years old, more handsome than me, richer than me, mature and steady in his speech, full of wit, and made Chen Chun happy.
Chen Chun helped him tidy up his room and arranged for us to go out for a trip the next day. In the evening, I was playing games in my study, while Chen Chun was chatting with Wang Yi in his room.
At one o'clock in the morning, Chen Chun had not yet returned to his room to sleep. I turned off the sound of the game and quietly walked to the door of Wang Yi's room, where the two were still chatting excitedly. Upon listening carefully, I was stunned. Chen Chun, as usual, revealed all my sexual privacy, and the conversation between the two was all about sex. I took the opportunity to break through the door and found Chen Chun lying next to Wang Yi, gazing affectionately at each other. Wang Yi was listening attentively to Chen Chun's words. Obviously, my existence has been overlooked.
It's just ridiculous. Even under my nose, Chen Chun is so arrogant. If he goes out and spends time alone with him, it's not bad. In a fit of anger, I immediately drove Wang Yi away. Chen Chun was very angry at my actions and insisted that they were a pure friendship. We had a big argument, and Chen Chun returned to his mother's house. I think at this moment, both of us need to calm down and hope that she will recognize her mistake. After all, she is a married woman, and doing such a thing is disloyal to her husband. If we change this bad habit, we will continue to walk, otherwise, no one can save this relationship.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)