Post Date December, 03 2023
After work, I asked my office girlfriend to go shopping, but she looked sad: "I have to cook and wash clothes when I go back." I shook my head helplessly, just like I was a few years ago. But now I won't do it again.
In those years, I ran home after work. First I called Jiaming and asked him what to eat. Then I went to buy vegetables. Then I went back and soaked the dirty clothes. Then I cooked. After dinner, Jiaming pushed the bowl and watched the computer game without blinking. I rolled up my sleeves and washed the dishes before washing clothes. When I finished, it was almost midnight. During the holidays, I spent most of my time at home with Jiaming. I went shopping and bought clothes for him. Because the salary was given to him, my expenses were too small. I couldn't bear to let him suffer, so I had to tighten my clothes and eat less.
The quarrel was very fierce. I moved out in a fit of anger, and stayed alone in anger. I was sad to find that there was not only no money, but also no intimate friend around me. Only then did I realize that I took my youth and so-called love as a bet, and finally, I ended up in such a situation.
We finally made up, but I don't want to go back to my previous life. First, I should not put myself into this relationship. I need two people to manage it. I have done too much for him. 2、 I should have my own life, so I can be independent and perfect.
After making up my mind, I changed to a new job and soon entered the state. When I was recognized by the people around me, I also made many friends. After getting paid, I bought what I wanted, and I also began to wear sexy clothes, such as miniskirts. In short, the fabric I wear is much less than before, more mature, elegant and confident than before. My life has become colorful.
On the contrary, Jiaming was upset. He was afraid that I would surpass him and dump him. I told him that if you want to love for a long time, you can only fly together, otherwise, the laggard will be the last one out.
Jiaming was dubious about what I said. He looked at my sexy dress and was totally different from before. He believed that I had cheated and betrayed him before he said such words. So he followed me for more than half a year, and of course he got nothing. I don't attend training classes, or go shopping, or work overtime. Every day I wear proper clothes and appear in front of everyone confidently, which is different from the ugly duckling before. Looking at my changes, Jiaming is flustered. He works hard and gives me some gifts from time to time. You know, he hasn't even sent me a flower in five years since we met.
Now, we continue to live an emotional AA life, and trivial family affairs such as laundry and cooking are equally divided between our responsibilities and obligations, and arranged in an orderly manner. Many people say that I am more charming and charming now. Our relationship is still as sweet and romantic as love, and I also fully enjoy the independent marriage life of a big woman.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
