Post Date December, 03 2023
One afternoon half a year ago, I sent a private message from my mobile microblog, the general content of which was to make friends with me. Driven by curiosity, I browsed each other's microblog, which was a young and handsome guy. Although I am not interested in the "seeking to hook up", I am not repelled by the handsome guy's kindness. So I replied to his private letter: "My friend, I have been married for more than ten years.". Less than five seconds after my private letter was sent, the other party's private letter came again: I just make friends, so it doesn't matter whether you marry or not. I replied: OK.
In the following days, I often receive private letters from each other. After a long time, we became friends who talked about everything. We would share the joys and sorrows of life with each other. Later, we met in real life.
He is more handsome than in the photo. We wanted to know our old friends for many years when we first met, without any strange feeling. What is more surprising is that after our dinner, he asked me to open a room. I didn't contradict him, but went to the hotel with him.
After arriving at the hotel, he asked me to take a shower first. However, after I took a shower, I found that others had disappeared. My first feeling at that time was whether I met a cheater. I quickly opened my handbag and put the cash and mobile phone safely there.
I don't know what Hulu Li bought. He wrote to him privately on Weibo, but he ignored me. I went home with a bit of depression. When I got home, he and my husband sat in my living room. At that moment, I was dumbfounded.
The man saw me come back, whispered with his husband and left. From his gloomy face, I read a displeasure. At the same time, I suddenly realized that the man was hired by his husband to seduce me, in order to test my loyalty to marriage. Finally, I really failed to stand the test.
Speaking of my husband, I suddenly felt a sense of disgust. When I married her, he was just a poor boy, but my husband would come and make my parents happy every day. For this reason, our marriage was not stopped by our parents, but our parents urged us to do things.
Later, with the help of my parents and me, my husband began to run a small shop and became the boss of a large supermarket. Then, my husband no longer trusted me so much. When I came home every day, he would inquire about what I had done in the day. Unexpectedly, he hired someone to test my loyalty to marriage.
In the face of my husband's questioning, I didn't feel guilty. Instead, I was angry that my privacy was torn by my husband. I immediately filed for divorce. Now, the husband was completely deceived. He immediately changed his tough tone and said in a low voice that he loved me the most in his life and begged me not to leave him or divorce him.
I'm very contradictory and crazy now. Will the marriage I don't trust continue?
Reply:
Your contradiction stems from your failure to stick to your marriage loyalty under the charm of a handsome boy.
Your madness mainly comes from that your husband should not test the loyalty of marriage by employing people to seduce you.
When you ask me: Is it necessary to continue the distrusted marriage, I also want to ask you: Is a woman who is unfaithful to her husband still worthy of deep love?
I hate all premeditated "charm", but I also hate people who are under self-control in front of "charm". If you can stick to your bottom line in the face of "collusion", will your husband's test be so important to you?
Once, you and your family have done a lot for your husband. Over the years, he has also been grateful. As a successful man, he must not lack the closeness of young women around him. Instead of cheating, the appearance of these rotten peach blossoms makes him more "nervous" about you, because in his view, you, as the wife of a rich man, will also have handsome men salivating. So, He just came up with the story of hiring someone to charm you. He hoped that the end of the story should be that the man and you were just friends, but the end of the story still let him down.
In fact, he just wants to know the truth. Even if you really cheat, he will not divorce you, because he has regarded you as a part of his life, and he is willing to make all kinds of inferiority for you.
At the moment, you are angry at not only your husband's "distrust", but also the humiliation of being teased by that man, and the embarrassment of being found out by your husband that you betrayed.
What I want to tell you is that there is a man who is successful in his career and really loves you. Maybe years have stolen his handsome face and added some wrinkles to his face, but there are too many beautiful love stories only belonging to you and him hidden in these wrinkles. I hope you can put down all kinds of contradictions and tangles, sincerely apologize to your husband for your cheating, and then manage your marriage well.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
