Post Date December, 03 2023
My husband and I are classmates in junior high school, high school, and college, and we have finally been able to hold hands in marriage, which has been praised by countless classmates. For this reason, I also feel that I am the happiest woman in the world, because in the long process from puppy love to marriage, there is no betrayal, and it is not easy to resist temptation and accept the insipidity of love.
After graduating from college, my husband got a job as a bank clerk, and I worked as a financial controller in a large private company. Despite being unfamiliar with our work and being ostracized by older employees, my husband and I continued to encourage each other. Until we established ourselves in the company, we chose a holiday to host our wedding.
After marriage, due to the busy work, we have lost too much romantic feelings, especially from Monday to Friday, when we work overtime without any prediction, which makes us lazy to communicate after returning home, often eating snacks blindly and falling asleep. However, over the years, we have developed a habit with our husband, that is, we like to sleep naked, and our husband always carries me to sleep every night.
I remember one time when my husband was on a business trip and called me at 2 am in the morning, saying that he had changed places because I was not around, so he lost sleep.
"It was this husband who I thought I couldn't leave without, but last night, he was holding me in his arms and sleeping soundly, but in the middle of the night, he was snoring lewd words. I knew he was having a spring dream, even accompanied by some small actions. Sadly, the object of his spring dream was not me, but the name of a woman I had never heard of.".
After I was awakened by the shock, my husband's spring dream continued, and I witnessed the entire process, including the loss of semen from her husband.
I really wanted to wake up my husband and ask him exactly what was going on, but I managed to hold back and continue tossing and turning on the bed, thinking of every bit of being with him. To be honest, over the years, I have not discovered that my husband has had an affair with that woman, and he has always been a good man who does not smoke or drink, and does not go to entertainment venues. However, how can I explain such a strange dream?
Everyone says that there are thoughts every day and dreams every night. Can it be said that although her husband has not cheated, he has been living in Cao Ying's heart for many years?
Re:
Whether men or women, they will have some strange dreams at certain times, including spring dreams. What I want to tell you is that many of the things pieced together in dreams are not daydreaming and nightdreaming, and some dreams are completely involuntary daydreaming. That is to say, it is also common for strangers to appear in dreams, and even many people wake up in the first sleep, I can't even name the person who has a story with me in my dream.
Whether your husband belongs to the flower heart clan or not, you are bound to be the wife who knows best. Why should you guess your husband's loyalty to you for a strange dream?
"Personally, I think it's better to pretend that this incident didn't happen, because you really can't enumerate any evidence of your husband's infidelity, so saying something seriously can undermine the trust between husband and wife. If you're really feeling uncomfortable, you can jokingly mention this matter to your husband to see how he will react. If he asks you 'Really?'" "Or 'I also vaguely feel like this, but I really don't know who that person is', then you can really relax.".
After nearly ten years of love, it is indeed an enviable thing for people to finally join hands in marriage. It is inevitable to encounter some unhappy things in marriage, which are also part of life. You should know that more unhappy things do not come from your emotions themselves, there are also conflicts caused by family, there are also conflicts caused by work, and more conflicts are caused by the different views of both parties on something. Therefore, every responsible couple should learn to cherish and tolerate.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
