Post Date December, 03 2023
One afternoon six months ago, I sent a private message on my mobile Weibo account, roughly stating that I wanted to make friends with you. Driven by curiosity, I browsed the other person's Weibo account, which was a young and handsome guy. Although I am not interested in the matter of "seeking collusion", I did not reject the handsome guy's flattery. So, I replied to his private message: "Little friend, I have been an old woman who has been married for more than ten years. Less than five seconds after my private message was sent, the other person's private message came again: I am just making friends, so it doesn't matter to me whether you get married or not. I replied: Okay.
In the following days, I often received private letters from each other asking for warmth and comfort. Over time, we became friends who talked about everything and shared the joys and sorrows of life. Later, we met in real life.
He is even more handsome than in the photo. The first time we met, we wanted to meet old friends who have been around for many years, without any sense of estrangement. What's even more shocking is that after our dinner, he asked me to open a room, but I didn't refute it. Instead, I used a supernatural act to follow him to the hotel.
After arriving at the hotel, he asked me to take a shower first, but after I took a shower, I found that the other person had disappeared. My first feeling at that time was: did I encounter a scammer and quickly opened my handbag, where I kept my cash and phone securely.
I can't figure out what to buy from Hululi. I sent him a private message on Weibo, but he ignored me. Returning home with a slightly disheartened mindset, he sat in my living room with my husband. At that moment, I was dumbfounded.
The man saw me come back and whispered a few words to his husband before leaving. From his gloomy face, I understood a sense of displeasure. At the same time, I suddenly realized that the man was hired by his husband to seduce me specifically to test my loyalty to the marriage. In the end, I really couldn't withstand the test.
When it comes to my husband, I suddenly feel a sense of disgust. When I married her, he was just a poor boy, but my husband would come and make my parents happy every day. Therefore, our marriage did not get stopped by our parents, but instead our parents urged us to do things.
Later, with the help of my parents and me, my husband started running a small shop and became the owner of a large supermarket. As a result, he no longer trusted me so much. Every day when I returned home, he would inquire about what I had done throughout the day. Unexpectedly, he hired someone to test my loyalty to marriage.
Faced with my husband's questioning, I didn't feel guilty, but rather angry that my privacy had been torn apart by him. I immediately filed for divorce. Now, it completely messed up my husband. He immediately changed his tough tone and whispered that he loved me the most in his life, begging me not to leave him or divorce him.
I am currently conflicted and frantic. Should I continue my distrusted marriage?
Reply:
Your contradiction stems from the fact that you are indeed seduced by a handsome young man and have not maintained your loyalty to your marriage.
Your madness mainly comes from your husband not testing marital loyalty by hiring someone to seduce you.
When you ask me: Is it necessary to continue a marriage that you don't trust, I also want to ask you: Is a woman who is unfaithful to her husband still worthy of deep love?
I dislike all premeditated 'charm', but I also dislike those who are under self-control in front of 'charm'. If you could stick to your bottom line in the face of 'seeking collusion', would your husband's test of you still be so important?
Once, you and your family did a lot for your husband, and over the years, he has been grateful. As a successful man, he must not lack the closeness of young women around him. Not only did he not cheat, but the appearance of these rotten peach blossoms made him more "nervous" about you, because in his opinion, as the wife of a wealthy man, there will also be handsome men coveting you. Therefore, He just came up with the plot of hiring someone to charm you. He hoped that the end of the story should be that the man and you were just friends, but the end of the story still disappointed him.
In fact, he just wants to know the truth. Even if you really cheat, he won't divorce you because he already sees you as a part of his life, and he is willing to make all kinds of inferiority for you.
At this moment, you are angry not only about your husband's "distrust", but also about the humiliation of being played with by that man, as well as the embarrassing situation of being caught cheating by your husband and not being able to hold your face.
What I want to tell you is that there is a man by your side who has achieved success in his career and truly loves him. Perhaps time has stolen some of his handsome appearance and added some wrinkles to his face, but inside these wrinkles, there are too many beautiful love stories that only belong to you and him. I hope you can put down all kinds of conflicts and entanglements, sincerely apologize to your husband for your infidelity, and then manage your marriage well.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
