My husband cheated and claimed he couldn't control it. My wonderful mother-in-law asked me to bear it and pass by

My husband and I have known each other for five years, and after we had children, we held a wedding. The child is almost one year old now, but I found someone outside. A child who grew up in a single parent family with her husband, her mother-in-law gave her husband a unique love from a young age. Despite not having a father, her mother-in-law would try her best to satisfy other children's needs, such as food, clothing, and daily necessities. I have developed a spoiled personality since childhood. We were married for less than a year, and he allowed his own temperament to cheat, regardless of my feelings.

When I learned about his infidelity, I couldn't accept such betrayal. It took us six years from love to marriage, and I never questioned the stability of our relationship. From the first day we confirmed our love relationship, I began to look forward to our future, getting married together, giving him a baby, and traveling with the baby. Now, his betrayal seems to have given me a hard slap in the face, A burning pain.

I never despised him as a child of a single parent family, and even after getting married, I lived in such a house with my mother-in-law, which was less than sixty square meters, and I didn't complain. With all these years of understanding, I believe that in the near future, we will have our own big house and car. All these beautiful fantasies were disrupted by that ambiguous text message. I asked my husband what he meant. He just got married and he's like this. Do he still have to live his life in the future. My husband's answer is that ordinary friends are just joking, don't worry. Afterwards, as he returned home later and later, the woman's intuition told me that he had indeed cheated.

I dialed the number that sent the text message that day, and it was a woman who connected. The third party shamelessly told me that my husband spends all day at her Spring Festival Eve, extremely busy, and has no time to care about me, a housewife who has given birth and is still in shape. I don't know how to hang up the phone, I just feel like my whole body is trembling, my lips are trembling, my brain is blank, my mind seems to be splitting, and it took me a long time to recover.

What makes me even more speechless is that my mother-in-law actually asked me to bear it for a while. The child is young, don't think about divorce, she will teach my husband a good lesson. But in fact, the mother-in-law just spoke without any pain or itching, and it didn't have any effect at all. The fact that he cheated is now a foregone conclusion. Like nobody else, he takes the initiative to care about me every day at work and after work. I have communicated with her a lot and they all agreed on the surface, but behind the scenes, they still remain the same and steadfast. What should I do now? I haven't fully considered the divorce yet. The child is too young and I can't bear to part with him. What should I do?

Reply from Weiqing Consultant:

In the face of such a situation in marriage, if he chooses to go his own way and choose his own temperament, you can either endure it or divorce. A man's infidelity is due to the inability to withstand external temptations, the boredom and lack of excitement in marriage, and the fact that your husband has been spoiled by his mother-in-law since childhood, which has developed a willful personality and leads him astray, yet he still doesn't know how to turn back. My mother-in-law asked you to bear it, and she will handle it.

Personally, I don't think it's reasonable. It's best to close the door and solve things between husband and wife. If someone intervenes, it will only make things worse. What that third party said was intentionally angry with you, such a woman is not surprising. In life, due to the baby, you neglect to take care of your husband. In short, first find out the reasons for the problems in your marriage. Everyone can sit down and have a good discussion, and both parties can make some improvements. Now that children are young, it is also necessary to consider their growth.