Post Date December, 02 2023
My ex husband and his little girlfriend broke up, and he ran up to me with a mournful face and confided to me, "She never knows satisfaction, she only knows how to take things. Cosmetics, bags, designer shoes, anything that sticks to a designer label, she almost wants to pack it up. When we were not divorced, I lived frugally and he even scolded me for being stingy. Looking at his pitiful appearance now, I feel a sense of pleasure in my heart. Their breakup was a matter of time, and I had already seen through that woman, a typical gold digger. I just didn't expect them to break up so quickly, let alone my husband's wallet, so quickly squeezed dry by him! We've only been divorced for less than six months, and they've gone their separate ways.
My husband and his little girlfriend got to know each other online, and as soon as they met, they became very close. Because the child has always been very weak, I have devoted all my attention to him. I also have no time to care about my husband's thoughts. I am very clear about the conversation he had with netizens, it was just a simple warning and did not delve into it. They talked for a month, and he was very abnormal. He often argued with me, found reasons to sleep in separate rooms with me, and became increasingly indifferent to me. At that moment, I realized that there was something wrong with our marriage. After discovering his infidelity, I got divorced without a word. Now, his little girlfriend who is hugging him left and right broke up with him, but he came to me to complain, it's really a comeback.
In fact, I am also aware that my husband and I are good friends on QQ. He often posts and talks about them in the space. Sometimes, when I browse the space and see photos of them playing, my teeth itch with hatred. A few days ago, I accidentally saw his breakup on QQ and talked about records. At first, I was skeptical, but now this situation seems to be true. My husband said he saw through the other person, missed me and the child, and wanted me to go home and live a good life with him. I was stunned, remarriage was not within my consideration. But his sincere expression made me moved. I admit that I haven't forgotten him, but I can't accept the fact that he cheated. I thought for a moment, but he didn't continue to pester me.
Yesterday, the child had their birthday and stayed overnight at my house. The child felt that his father was playing with him, and he was very excited. He took my hand and placed it in his father's hand, it was really clever. Looking at the child's breakup, I let him stay overnight. He raised the issue of remarriage again, and I am still hesitating. His harm to me cannot be healed in just one or two words. At night, I secretly observed him and found him flipping through his phone, which contained a photo of his little girlfriend. What does he mean while trying to reconcile with me and still hanging out on my girlfriend. If I were to keep one eye open and one eye closed, I wouldn't be able to do it. If we continue to develop like this, we estimate there will be no results. Do I still want to remarry him? Can someone help me analyze it.
Reply from Weiqing Consultant:
Hello. He was hurt emotionally before wanting to be good to you. This kind of man is really unpredictable emotionally. He just broke up and is still in a buffer period. At this time, he cannot agree to any demands. He has already hurt you once, and you should also consider it carefully and not easily forgive him. Moreover, he still has a photo of his little girlfriend on his phone, which indicates that he still has a place for the other person in his heart. Don't just be soft hearted and compromise when you feel like it. Is that what you did when you divorced?
I suggest treating the matter of remarriage calmly, regardless of whether you have this man in your heart or not. If he makes a mistake, he should pay for it. It's not just a simple apology. If you miss him, you can save the family. If that's the case, will you accept him in the same way if he makes mistakes again in the future? It is inevitable for a person to encounter setbacks in their life. We can give them opportunities, but at the same time, we must make them understand that making mistakes is not easily forgivable. We must take some responsibility for this mistake, keep it in their hearts, and not give them the opportunity to make a second mistake.
Therefore, calm down with each other first and watch his performance. If he sincerely repents, you can give him a chance. Conversely, if he is only injured and wants to find a harbor to dock, then you don't need to pay much attention to him. The saying goes, 'You can't live by committing your own wrongdoing, let him figure it out for himself.'.
