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My husband bought the wedding house in full, but there was a stranger's name on the property certificate. I was mad at my mother-in-law's words
My husband and I were introduced to each other. Their family conditions are good. My husband is an only child. My parents-in-law loves him very much. All the money we earn is saved by my husband. In fact, I also reject blind dates. The introducer said at that time that if the other party has the full payment of the house, two people can become a family. In the future, they don't have to pay the mortgage, and can worry a lot less. With the encouragement of my parents, my husband and I met and felt that we were getting along very well, so we got married.
According to custom, when getting married, the man should give the woman a certain amount of money, at least 100000 yuan. My parents are reasonable and think that when they buy a wedding house, they don't want the money for the bride price, so they should give it to me as a dowry distribution. When I was getting married, my husband took me to choose a wedding ring, buy some clothes, buy the wedding necessities, and so on. It may have cost more than 30000 yuan. Plus, on the wedding day, my father-in-law gave me a change fee of 66 thousand yuan, and it only cost me less than 40000 yuan to marry me. And after the wedding, I gave it to my parents-in-law. I only thought it was my filial piety.
The full price of the house is 600000 yuan. It is a rough house and has not been decorated. After marriage, my husband and I were crowded into a house with more than 70 square meters of his parents. My husband proposed to decorate the new house. He asked me to pay for the decoration. The planned decoration cost is 200000 yuan. When the time comes, the more will be refunded and the less will be paid. When he said this, I felt uncomfortable. Everyone is a family. He plays so clearly that I can feel his cold blood instantly.
Over the years, I have saved more than 100000 yuan in my hand. Before I got married, my mother gave me a card with about 60000 yuan in it. She was afraid that I would hurt myself in my husband's house and let me keep my own flowers. All the money on my body adds up to enough for decoration, but I always feel uneasy. After marriage, my husband never mentioned adding my name. To put it mildly, if I finish the decoration, in case of any cracks in our relationship and divorce in the future, wouldn't I have nothing?
I told my husband what I thought and asked him to take me to go through the formalities and add my name to the property certificate when he had time. My husband brainwashed me. His love for me can be learned from heaven and earth. There is no possibility of divorce. What else he said is mine. Everyone is a family. Don't be so divided. I heard this and felt that he was hypocritical. Since he was a family, why did he refuse my request? Say so at any time, but I still gave him a face, paid half of the deposit, and began to decorate the new house
My heart is not willing, and I always feel that he hides something from me. Once I cleaned the room, I inadvertently opened the drawer, and the property certificate was placed in the drawer. I casually opened it and looked at it. In addition to my husband's name, there was also a stranger's name on it. I couldn't understand it. My husband was away from home on business for two days. I ran to my mother-in-law to ask about the situation.
The mother-in-law looked at the property certificate and said, "Ah Hua (my husband) is so careless." I was confused. Then he told me the truth: I didn't intend to tell you this. Now that you know it, I will tell you. The man was Ahua's fiancee, who bought the house together. She paid 150000 yuan, and the marriage talks broke down. The woman left with a man who was doing business. She had to leave her 150000 yuan before she left. A Hua wants to cancel her name, but needs to sign her name. She seems to be missing and can't be contacted again.
The more I heard it, the more angry I became. He asked me to pay for the decoration, but it was the name of a strange woman on the property certificate. If one day she came back to fight for the property, I wouldn't have nothing at all. Look at my anger. My mother-in-law not only doesn't comfort me, but also protects his son. Ah Hua has suffered enough. You should live well after getting married. Don't do anything.
You two can't run away from the house. When the woman comes back, she will fill in your name after going through the formalities. Her appearance made me more angry. It was clear that they had done wrong, and they also had to contend with reason. The house has begun to be renovated, but my heart can't calm down. I have no sense of security in this house. My closest husband actually hid such a big thing from me. What should I do now? annoying.