Post Date December, 03 2023
I love my husband very much. But from time to time, he mentions her who used to be. His ex girlfriend has already cast a shadow in my heart. He loved her before, but was abandoned by that woman. He said he felt heartbroken at that time.
Actually, these things have been going on for a few years, and I know my husband still loves me. Recently, I still found out that they were chatting on QQ, and after that, he deleted the chat record. When I asked him, he denied it.
Now it's me, my heart hurts. Now I really doubt what he wants to do? What should I do?
Ms. Cheng:
At present, your husband seems to have only a secret connection with his ex girlfriend, but there is no clear further contact. He deleted the chat record, probably because he was afraid of being seen by you, but this also indicates from one side that he is guilty. Can it be that you put too much pressure on him?
Don't forget the past, it's understandable. Thought is uncontrollable, but if it is put into practical action and leads to a resurgence of old relationships, then the problem becomes serious. What's comforting now is that you can still feel that your husband loves you.
You should first communicate well with him, explain your concerns, and see if he can provide you with sincere explanations and guarantees. Secondly, you should pay more attention to him, care more about him, and immediately solve any problems that arise. Of course, problem-solving requires methods and skills, and sincere communication is an important way.
