Post Date December, 03 2023
My husband is a gynecologist. From love to marriage, our relationship has always been very good, but sexual life is not too ideal.
After marriage, my husband's performance in sexual life has been poor. In the first few months, I didn't take sexual life seriously or take it seriously. However, after nearly a year of marriage, our sexual life is still not harmonious enough. At this time, I have also conducted some learning on sexual knowledge. Although the practice with my husband has not been smooth, it has gradually made me have a desire for sexual life.
The husband's problem seems to be lack of motivation, but he has performed well several times. It doesn't seem like he has any obstacles. I think he has a "heart attack". "I have never asked him about this question, but recently I read an article that happened to mention that male obstetricians and gynaecologists may not be sensitive enough to sexual life due to professional relationships.".
"This makes me very sad. I have never considered before what impact his career will have on our sexual life. If the article is true, then I think unless he changes jobs, our sexual life quality will never improve.". Excuse me, what should we do?
Reply: It's too much to let him change his job because of sexual disharmony
"Personally, I have not studied the relationship between career and sexual interest, but according to my logical inference, there should not be a relationship between the two.". It's like teaching someone to swim doesn't mean they don't like it. This metaphor may not be appropriate, but the truth is similar. "If the husband's career and job are already stable, it may be unreasonable to let him switch careers just to improve his sexual life.".
"I think you still need to seek coordination in other areas. It is not possible to 'never ask him about this issue'. You must ask him, but you cannot blame him.". Speak out about your thoughts, your dissatisfaction, and so on, which will help you understand each other and solve the problem.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
