It doesn't matter who slept with whom between men and women. Even if something happens, it should be sleeping with each other. However, according to the market price and the nonsense on the wine table, men always feel that they have taken a huge advantage of themselves, and always feel that they have done something to women. Therefore, they are willing to say, "I slept with XXX." The generally recognized reasons are as follows:
1. Men feel like they are human and women are objects
Men who sleep with their wives never go out to show off because they feel that it is their property. According to the principle of "not revealing wealth", wives are not suitable for going out to discuss. Only sleeping with someone else's wife or unmarried woman is like stealing 10 yuan from someone else's house or picking up 10 yuan on the road. Getting things outside of their normal income, including sleeping with women, always makes men feel like they're taking advantage. Stimulation, and can prove their luck or means to other men, so a man must explain who he slept with, how he slept, how he slept, and so on.
2. Men deceive themselves physically and seek psychological balance
In fact, men don't take advantage of sleeping with women themselves. They need to pay more physically, and they also have more material to "contribute" from their bodies. In fact, most men need to work hard during the "sleep" process. To be honest, during the entire "sleep" process, men's organs are completely surrounded, and eventually they always have to surrender. Who sleeps who? In fact, there is no need to use words to support oneself.
3. Women's traditional reserve and reserve remind them not to be too arrogant
Regardless of gender equality, after all, men are still men. From the social division of labor in primitive society, men are endowed with strong aggressiveness, possessiveness, expressiveness, and vanity. In some primitive tribes, in order to express their strength, men would wrap a lot of things around their reproductive organs, making others look very thick from the senses. This is the vanity of men who use the original way to start being arrogant. Women actually like to express themselves, but their expressions are always reserved, implicit, and tactful. Some people may say that women are hypocritical, but it is precisely this implicit expression that gives women the feminine beauty, which is why women are called women.
4. There is no need to show off how many women a man can "sleep" with, and how many men a woman can sleep with
"This topic is a bit skewed, so I'm ready to talk about it.". Many men always boast about how many women they have slept, both boasting and slapping their faces. If you think about it carefully, the gender ratio in China is that the number of men is slightly less than the number of women. "A man sleeps with N women, is it true that men all over the country sleep around those 100 or 1000 women?"? Therefore, when a man is talking about how many women he has slept with, is he also saying, "I am one of many men who have been sleeping with a certain woman." In other words, it's not worth showing off. Men and women are all human beings, all sleeping, all in the tens of minutes between the bed curtains. Mutual respect is important.
5. Who "sleeps" who is not actually a substantive issue, the key lies in mutual respect
Men and women alike, if you truly love someone, at least you will respect them, and at least you cannot bring their most private things to the table for discussion. From this point of view, it seems that arrogant men should learn to respect the dignity of women in bed curtains. While respecting others, it also gives oneself sexual dignity. On the issue of "sex", no matter how arrogant and ostentatious a man may be, he still needs to leave something noble and sacred for himself, right? Otherwise, I'm afraid it would have become the copulation of animals and livestock, without the human characteristics of "sex".