Post Date December, 02 2023
The marriage I long for is actually very simple: loyal love and cherish it well. But she repeatedly fooled around with other men in bed.
My wife's first infidelity occurred during our passionate love affair:
My wife refused my pursuit by not talking to anyone during high school and college. But what I know is that she had four or five brief relationships during her college years. Until we graduated from college, we met again, and I launched a fierce attack again. This time, my wife agreed to become my girlfriend.
During this period, my wife and a romantic partner from college were completely disconnected, and even went to see the man without my knowledge. During this period, my wife even had an abortion for the man. At that time, I was very injured and broke up with my wife.
Later, when the man got married, his wife completely gave up and chased me back because I still loved her, so we got married in a flash.
My wife's second infidelity occurred while I was working outside:
My wife's betrayal before marriage has caused me a great deal of harm, leading to frequent paranoia and arguments after marriage. At that time, when I was looking for a psychological institution, the psychologist told me that since I was married, I shouldn't punish myself with my previous mistakes. For this, I gradually let go.
When my child was in kindergarten, I accompanied my boss to work on a project in another city for six months. When I returned, I caught my wife and male neighbor in bed. That time, I beat my wife and also beat my male neighbor. Afterwards, I had a cold war with my wife for four or five months, and it wasn't until she lowered her head and admitted her mistake that I tried to forgive.
This time, I went to a psychological institution again, and the comfort provided by the psychologist was that living apart in two places can easily lead to the lonely one cheating or just itching in the body. If you still love, you must forgive.
I admit that my love for my wife is deepening, so I forgive again.
The wife's third infidelity occurred when she met a wealthy man:
After a few years of stable life, my wife has become increasingly materialistic. I think my career has developed well in recent years, with a house, a car, and no loan, but my wife still occasionally scolds me for not having the ability. Even worse, a while ago, she met a big boss at a dinner party and the two of them actually hooked up. Because my wife practiced tennis and played a professional team during school, she often became obsessed with playing tennis with her boss. Every time I argue with my wife, she always says that I was careful to prevent her from earning extra money.
After thinking about it, I plan to get divorced, but my wife is a teardrop and won't let me leave.
Looking back on the years of marriage, what I have gained from my wife is more selfishness and indifference, but her beautiful appearance makes me reluctant to let go. I am very sad now and don't know how to continue my future life.
Reply to bloggers:
You will always be your wife's emotional backup. She won't part with you because she deeply understands that once she loses you, no man will truly treat her again. However, she is also a greedy woman, relying on your love for her, all kinds of violence.
Besides three betrayals, I think she is also very indifferent to you on weekdays. In the imprint of marriage, your efforts are everywhere. Otherwise, how could you say she is selfish?
When in love, everyone is accustomed to finding a rare opposite sex to love, while ignoring the opposite sex who loves them. I believe that finding someone I love can demonstrate a desire to conquer and make my love strong during the pursuit process.
However, love is a process of mutual warmth. If one cannot catch up with the person they love in a year, it can only be said that they truly do not like you. So that two people can finally get married, not because of love, but because they are moved.
At this point, for the one who loves, they will be happy and believe that their dreams have finally come true, but for the one they love, they still feel that love is still on the way. Although they got married, they still haven't given up on finding true love. It is obvious that her search for true love is destined to hurt you.
Until one day she fully understands that being together is more important than loving you, she will give you a heart to heart.
Suggestion given:
Forcibly divorce and quickly help oneself find a continuation partner after the divorce.
Forcible divorce is a warning to your wife that you have the courage to leave her and allow her to experience the hardships of life on days without you;
Quickly searching for a continuation partner makes her feel at risk and makes her understand that you are also rare among women.
In this state, if she can be shrewd, she can consider remarriage, otherwise, she should be completely relieved.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
