Post Date December, 02 2023
My boyfriend and I met in high school, and when we got to college, we were together. They all said that love is sweet, and we are no exception. To tell the truth, I am a conservative person. Whenever he mentions the topic of 'sex', I will avoid it, because I think a woman's first time must be after marriage.
After graduating from university, we worked in a city. He was excellent in his work. His boss asked him to work as an agent in Spain. I still remember that day, he called me excitedly to tell me such good news, and I was very happy for him, but this made me feel a little worried about our love. It is said that long-distance love is difficult to maintain, let alone this transnational love.
But I am not a short-sighted woman. When we left, we reluctantly parted at the airport.
After the separation, we should call at least three times a week. If he always complains about the tiredness of work there, I will comfort him quietly.
In fact, we will also talk about marriage, but when we make a decision, we will be delayed by other things, such as going abroad this time.
That day, my 25th birthday in my life, my friends said they would surprise me, which made me mysterious. At dinner in the evening, my friends pushed up a big box and said let me open it.
I looked at their smiling eyes and opened the box with curiosity. Suddenly, my boyfriend stood out of the box. I was shocked and hugged him with tears.
In the evening, when we were lying together, he suddenly mentioned something about sex life... I quickly changed the topic and asked him about it. But he was not happy. He said he had waited too long. I told him to wait until after marriage. He said whether I had any psychological shadow or physical problems. I didn't care what he said. I told him that only after marriage can
That day, we had an argument. I know I might be conservative, but is my boyfriend flying back from so far to have sex with me?
One day later, he went back by plane.
Two years later, we got married, and he got his wish. One time, we took our children to play in the park. We sat by the lake and thought about it. He laughed at me and said I was too conservative. I gave him a white eye.
I think there must be many women who have the same mentality as me and can only give their first time to their husbands. And if men care about women's true love for women, they will not force women in sexual life.
