Post Date December, 02 2023
When many divorced couples sum up the reasons for their marriage failure, one of the most important things is that they don't know what the other party thinks. How do they feel that the longer they are married, the less they know the other party. They lose by neglecting their daily communication homework.
At the beginning, when they met, they could identify with each other in terms of education, economic ability, life and attitude. However, people will change. After a period of time, they have different development. Growth, of course, is a beautiful thing, but for marriage, two people grow in different directions and at different speeds, which often leads to many setbacks, dissatisfaction and cooperation problems.
Couples should be the two closest people in the world. Therefore, the communication between these two people should be the most natural, simple and direct. However, some people are born to be silent. Although they have a thousand words in their heart, they can't say a word in their mouth; Some people have a poor mouth in their life. They are so far away from the point that they can make the other side confused; Others are better at doing, expressing consideration and care with actions. No matter what kind of people, as long as they have the true feelings in their hearts, they will always let the other party understand.
Therefore, communication is the top priority between husband and wife, which is equivalent to the status of "basic national policy". However, some people are dull by nature, especially male friends, who do not love words are often regarded as virtues, and those who love to talk are called "microphones". But if one of the couple believes that "silence is golden", the other is to create more conditions.
There is a saying that "communication is love". If you want marriage to be like a ship sailing steadily along the route, you must remember this sentence, and practice it in your own way, innovate it, and wait for it to bring you a sense of harmony, relaxation, stability and stability in your home.
In a word, it is also necessary to say: I love you! And the weight is no less than that of the proposal, even more!
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
